what would you do when you feel so lonely

India
July 9, 2012 6:35am CST
sometimes it tends to happen that you feel so lonely even though many been there around you , a betrayal or a sad situation could take you to this stage and you would feel that loneliness ,it would be like world been against you ,everything would go wrong in you , then you sit alone thinking of something , you feel nothing could cheer you. what would you do at that stage , how do you take life to change of that moment. can any one suggest what is that point that i would or any one would stick to ,at that stage when loneliness surrounds. what is life for lonely people , on what principle do they live , i want to know and how that could be usefull i want to know as i am lonely..
9 responses
• India
12 Sep 12
hey ramesh,i used to go to side of a river and throw stones in the water, meet new people there , make new friends there. just try to make yourself busy , do not sit free ,this will help a lot. thanks.
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
I think it's normal for everyone of us to feel lonely each in awhile. But if there are ways for us not to feel that, it's much better. What I do if I feel lonely is keep myself busy. I know that I am also busy at work so I don't have time to be lonely. But I'll admit, there are really times that some situations make me upset and I tend to lie down on my bed and just wait for my sleepiness to strike me. I just tell myself that I would be lonely for this day, but tomorrow it will be enough. And with that, I could gain some positive vibes for me to go on to the next day. Just keep yourself happy always. :)
• India
10 Jul 12
well everone i this world is so lonely.. just sm may feel/realise it and others may not... just recall ur positive traits and feel your importance remember abt the positive changes you ve made to others whether they brealise it or not.. get sm purpose to your life and stand up...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
10 Jul 12
I will sleep or spend time on mylot, listening to music..because i can't focus on working in that mood also. Sometime going out to take photos is nice also...but in here ..i am scary to go out by driving a motorbike...streets are very crowd and it is very hot in summer time...
• Malaysia
9 Jul 12
Me too.. I can understand how its feel. For me many lonely ones find a measure of relief by watching TV or playing a video games for long period of time or by spending hours at their computer. But when they turn off these gadgets, they are as lonely as before. But actually ,its better to ask ourself this : 'Are there things that I can do to improve matter?' or ' could it be that I need to make some changes in my life?' this question may help you to make a personal analysis and find satisfying solutions. There may be no immediate solution to your loneliness feeling, but if you try hard , you will be happier, just be positive as you can . Start with smile , get out and about. Go for walk in the park or in the countryside, if possible. Tell anyone of your friend what you feel,or you should arrange some activity with your friend such as sport, any sport that make you happy and enjoy with everyone around u . Dont give up . Stay positive whatever the situation is. :)
• Philippines
11 Jul 12
just as one said, do mylot activy here we are we can chat too so youl be not lonely.
@yansky23 (404)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
Whenever I feel sad and blue, I think God is still the greatest refuge, I ask and pray for me to have better days. I also listen to music, arts and interact to mt love ones, especially my wife to be.
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
it how can you overcome loneliness, when your lonely, your focusing attention to yourself that leads to self-centeredness,, what you have to do is compare yourself with others who suffers more than yours, im glad that you fell that way because it means you have that nutrients in your body that processes emotions, your problem is only being lonely, wake up, have you ever seen childrens dying because of hunger, because of abuse, sickness, those people inside the jail, waiting for nothing but there days to end near, those who are beaten, those who are gays and lesbians who are being treated as animals?, im also like you but i must be strong if i want to help others, it one of my goals, thats why im studying hard, to somehow have a charity someday, help rather than be helped...
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Jul 12
I also feel the same thing. When I am lonely I am also depress. As if my world is really in turmoil. I could also feel headache and without explanation, my heart will ache also. When experiencing these all, I will just pray. We know that God is the only answer to all of the happenings in life. He gave you the burden because He knew we can make it despite of all trials. In times of revival after the heavy emotion, surely you will learn something that you can apply in your living here on earth. Just trust in God and have faith in Him. For in our weaknesses, there we can seek the strength we need. After praying, help yourself to think of a good though,t like the people whom you love. Think also of a good point why we exist here on earth. Have a good self - esteem. Don't think so much of the problem or the cause of such worries. Don't allow that worries overlook you or manage you to get down. Try to manage how to be happy. You may sing, dance, stroll around or any thing that can revive you. If you want to cry, do it if that can lightened your sorrows. Be positive always and don't be afraid of the things that has not yet to come. God bless you.