if you has been living together with your spouse without marriage
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
July 9, 2012 11:42pm CST
When living together without the bond, so the both are together, and their life in sweet harmony. Once they take decision to legalize it in a marriage, the both are became two strangers who let and less in touch each other. Is this thing happen because the both are in same routine, same face and same character ? if they felt bored then split up after one of finding someone else who is very much different, are they has do wrong ?
Guys, if you has been living together with your spouse without marriage, are you sure that a marriage can change everything and you keep together with your spouse ?
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4 responses
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 12
The thing is some people just enjoy the feeling and excitement of being in love, when they get married, most people will think that there is no more such feeling and starts to feel bored and less committed in the relationship. It is necessary for people to understand that when we get really used to someone, naturally we will feel less anxious, less increasing heart beat. But those are no indication that there is no more love between you two. If you really love each other, then you would never treat one another differently even after marriage.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
Marriage doesn't change people. It's time. Regardless married or not, sooner or later one becomes accustomed to routines and may soon find it boring. There are no more 'sweet nothings' because you live in the same house. There's no more sense of 'excitement' and once the couple starts having kids, their focus is now on the kids and the future, no more time for thinking about big dreams and things to do as partners.
I guess most marriage end up because they lived together first prior to marriage and when they got married they've been with each other for a long time now, so they already thought it was boring. Remember "Familiarity breeds contempt".
Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
14 Jul 12
Hi friend, The concept of living together is to understand about our partner very well, we don't have the ability to understand our partner fully, if we get an instant marriage, this kind of living together will help us to understand our partner, as well as we need some maturity to get marriage, if we are so young, we don't have that capacity, we can live together until getting certain age and get more maturity and responsibility for married life
