I don't have to say I love you because ...???

Hi Jziho That's for sure. Action speaks louder than words.. So people to whom we are loving the actions should be enough.. But even though they want to hear those magical words, then I will be happy too.. as I can manage all things without $$...

hi jai, I will agree with you I still want to hear it most of time of course it will be much appreciated if they will say I love you including some stuffs house and lot, cars, tour package and many more is highly appreciated Last sunday my Brother in law bought a camera for my sister he said Sorry and then handed out the camera he is good when it comes to bribing my sister LOL so the sorry is accepted but I doubt if the camera is not present that time my Brother in law will be the one who will be sorry hahhaha! thanks for the vodka night yesterday love yah

hi jai, guess there are so many who feels that gifts shows a lot more love than just saying it. but isnt it just the way of expressing the thoughfulness in a person? because love is felt.. not just held in your hands. have a good day too. ann

My husband can't speak the words to me. But he would show it by his actions. Even when he was just courting me , i haven't heard him say it. He would say it by cards , dedication of his picture and roses and chocolates. Well, even if he doesn't say it, sometimes i would really insist that he would say it.. .and he would say Luv u.

Hubby has never said I love you to me, is it necessary to tell? There are many other ways of expressing love. Seems you got a new lover, any way best of luck. I am so worried for him, he has not returned home yet, he has forgotten to take the cell phone hugs from maa

hi jai, They are soothing words to our ears, no matter how many times we hear them. My kids do say it every now and then but you know my hubby is so practical and he don’t say anything, oh yes but then action speaks. Why only chocolates and flowers, for me anything is welcome from loved ones.

Hi Jai! It appears that you not only need some 'chocolates and flowers' from the one who loves you, but you also need him to say 'I love you' as many times as he could.. I think perceptions will differ on this issue. Some of us love to hear the three words and some of us would be convinced that even if their respective lover does not say the words, they still love each other.

the way you smile and your eyes sparkle when you are together, every touch, every hug, everytime you held each other's hands, every encouraging word, every word of comfort, every caring act, every kiss, every dreamy thought, every moment shared building a future together... those speak volumes of love. but some people still would like to hear the words. my B included. lolz :) i don't know but i think he needs re-assurance often. or maybe i'm just not a word-y person to start with. a 100x? wow... that is a lot in one day. i did experience 50 in a single day. lolz and it was a bit too much. now he just tell me often still but aside from words, i would prefer to feel it, see it, and experience it. the best times are sleeping and waking up in each other's arms and starting off the day with "i love you's" in the air. hehe and the great ones are saying "i love you" just because. have a great week j!

oh, i always want to hear those words, and i always say it to my husband too. i am also glad that my husband is treating me the same way that i want. i won't settle on the saying that action speaks louder than words, as the accounting rule says never assume unless otherwise stated , so for me, those words are very important. from the moment i open my eyes, i would already hear him say i love you and before i close my eyes to sleep, i'd also hear those words from him. and whenever he's home, it is part of my day to receive a text message from him just saying "i love you and i miss you" even though we just got separated for an hour. those moments are priceless and paradise. i love flowers and chocolates as well, and he never get tired of surprising me with those.... and i think any girl would love to be treated that way

Glad you've shown up my dear bonita, I miss you a lot. You're right "action speaks louder than words" it is because "it is easier said than done". Don't you ever know that one of the most abuse words in the vocabulary is "I love you"? Why? It is because you can say it without doing some actions. You can say it with or without feelings..and only action can only describes the doer... Have a nice day bonita.. Mobhomeir here 071112 1443hrs

Hi Jai sis, what happen when a person is not good in speaking but good in action? I had seen some guys who are good at action by showing gifts to their loves ones but shy at speaking that magic words. By the way, it is not necessary to shower with flower and chocolate to show the love, right?

Oh what is this again love arises from the grave. Action is better than words.

For sure, action speaks louder than words, but sometime i like to hear 3 words also...it is sweet and it is the way to express out feeling in love. However, we should save it whenever you speak out because if we speak it a lots, listeners will feel that it is not real anymore and may bored when hearing... I don't speak 3 words every day, but sometime i do...

For me what is action without affirmation of the love that he got for you, right? It does't mean that hes being sweet and gentle to you means that he loves you. Because the best thing a guy can show his love to a lady is to Shout it out because by doing so just only means that your proud to show the World that you're madly in love. And that you were blessed to have this girl in your life. Though Having both action and words really matters too.

actions do speak louder than words but I do like to hear it once in awhile as well. On the other hand there are people who say I love you all the time but there actions don't show it, like they ignore the one they love or they physically or mentally abuse them or they cheat on them etc.

A bank would definitely do it for me. Well, like you I do believe that action can say so much more than words but hearing it can just be as sweet, right? That is why I prefer actions and words, and so does my girlfriend. You definitely sound in love.

Hi jaiho: I think both points of view have their own point. Actions speak louder than words but love also need these simple details, a beautiful word, a cuddle, to express your feelings day after day and of course, words must be complimented with actions or they won't mean anything in reality so there must be a balance between these two things. ALVARO

Hello!I agree that actions speak louder than words but sometimes you have to say it verbally too :) so that the person you love know that you love him very much in words and in action. I prefer both because I find it very sweet!

Hi jai I know someone who was offered a house and lot, a car and even a bank account. Even opening a new company for her... but she rejected it. That's because the guy is already married and could not divorce his wife eventhough the couple seems no longer married for long years. I am the reserved type of person that seldom says I love you to loved ones... but a sweet person to a boyfriend who shows and tells that I love him... I love chocolates and flowers... wonder when will I receive those again

Hi friend, welcome back. Hope you enjoyed a lot in your mylot vacation. you are right, there is no need to express the real and true love our activities will explain it very well. Eyes are the best way to express the real love. But most of us are interested in hearing the word, i love you.. from our beloved person, it will give more excitement and enjoyment to us