my greatest wish……………..unplanned wedding

Goodness..You got me thinking here with this topic eh... :p Shall I go out- in a mall, market, oh wait...let me see near the Municipal hall, and grab the first man that caught my eyes like this but...what if he is already married

hi bhaby, unplanned wedding... well am afraid its going to be a disaster if you have a big one because big weddings needs planning. but for a very simple one, i guess it will be ok. and i hope you are talking here of a planned husband to be. not someone you met very recently which like our oldies come to say - "hindi mo pa kabisado ang karakas". have a nice day. ann

hehe... i love you my friend but so many things going on here... #one, be careful what you wish for. it just may come true. lolz #two, if you have thought about it... then it must be a plan. :) #three, something as important as this should include at least a vision or a simple plan. for some people it's a highlight of their adult life. #four, not all plans work. however, not all unplanned ones are successful either. these said, i have to say that i'm a plan-freak. i like getting organized. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. but i do enjoy being spontaneous at times. with a plan, the excitement is built-up. without a plan, the surprise can be exciting. in a chat i did mention that B and i have a plan but nothing immediate or we might just jump into it one of these days. lolz i have envisioned my own wedding as simple, nothing grand, nothing flashy... just intimate. i'm practical, i don't want an expensive wedding because there are other events in married life that i wanna be more financially prepared for, like giving birth and increasing cost of education for the kids. that said, i would welcome the idea to dispense all the harbors of planning a big wedding and just get married quietly. but i wouldn't want to call it unplanned. lolz

Yes Bhaby! As soon as you get to Oklahoma City, find me, and have somebody (my mom, etc.) make all the arrangements!

I really like to know how is unplanned wedding works!! : ) I have no idea and I can't imagine this. It remind me of the scene in a movie "What Happen In Vegas", starred by Ashton Kutcher & Cameron Diaz. Truly wish your dream come true!

If given the chance to return to the past, I'd still choose to have this kind of life what I have now. UNPLANNED WEDDING!I myself had one,.. everything is unplanned.It started with one mistake(as they say, but never did we thought of it as one), my girlfriend for almost six years got pregnant, and had to face the consequences. Her family demanded for a wedding to be prepared the soonest after their knowledge. In a month time, we are able to prepare a wedding maybe not the one we dreamt of having but a wedding that we'll never forget and be cherish for the rest of our lives. It was never a perfect wedding (some things are forgotten), but the imperfections are too small to dwell upon and make us sad on our special day. Indeed, it was an exciting experience. One day we dreamed of a life together, and the next day we know, we're already sleeping on each others arms. A dream come true. from my school years to my marriage life. my world goes up and down when unplanned things happen, and its when i got married to at early age. the way i used to be drive me in opposite way, i really accept the reality of life. the morning routine down to bedtime, it feels me sick at first.

i wonder your guy wants this too

It may sound good and exciting but many of the times may end up with risks...! Please think twice or thrice before doing an unplanned wedding...! Atleast selecting of life partner should be somewhat planned...! Happy Mylotting..!

Hi bhaby, oh what a unique and amazing scenario. Meeting someone then agree something then decide for a wedding! No wedding planner needed for this. Lesser cost and lesser stress in preparing things to make it accomplished. :-)

hahaha... what a thought! if you have seen the movie kasal.. kasali... kaslo. they did exactly what you are talking about here.

Hey.It is really interesting and exciting to be married unplanned.Go an look in you tube for a video from "mobbed" episode.It will be titled-greatest surprise wedding.It took place really where a guy will propose to his girlfriend and marry her at that instant when she said yes.It was all planned in a hotel and it was too damn exciting.With all those dances,music and surprises,even the girl's mother were made to come there to surprise her,I would like to give something like this to my girl.Surely,if one has a weak heart,they would get a heart attack with all those surprises and happiness all of a sudden.

I have never heard about unplanned wedding, even eloping with some one is always planned, arranged marriages are definitely planned.. Any way best of luck and hugs from maa

No... I'd like my wedding to be elegant and classic, with all the people I like and I want every single bit of it to be just like in my dreams.

Hi friend, your unplanned wedding idea is good, wish you to get a marriage like this, it will be a great thrilling experience to the couples, since they don't know anything about each other and don't have any idea about their wedding before, it is like an instant marriage

Sounds like a plan there, well unfortunately I'm taken but, good luck finding your unplanned wedding man.

If given the chance to return to the past, I'd still choose to have this kind of life what I have now. UNPLANNED WEDDING!I myself had one,.. everything is unplanned.It started with one mistake(as they say, but never did we thought of it as one), my girlfriend for almost six years got pregnant, and had to face the consequences. Her family demanded for a wedding to be prepared the soonest after their knowledge. In a month time, we are able to prepare a wedding maybe not the one we dreamt of having but a wedding that we'll never forget and be cherish for the rest of our lives. It was never a perfect wedding (some things are forgotten), but the imperfections are too small to dwell upon and make us sad on our special day. Indeed, it was an exciting experience. One day we dreamed of a life together, and the next day we know, we're already sleeping on each others arms. A dream come true.