Immature Husband

Hi friend, sorry to hear about your hubby, don't worry he will change soon. You must try to change him to life your life happily. Married life surely needs maturity. If a person still continue as a immature after his marriage, surely his family will face a lot of problems and issues. Falling in love is easy thing, but we must be matured before getting marriage and after having the maturity and have the ability to face the challenges and responsibilities in life, we must go for marriage. Some persons who are in love is interested in getting marriage soon without having a proper maturity. This kind of immature persons don't have the ability to lead their family life happily. While we are single we don't have more responsibility and enjoy a lot with our friends and lover. We are interested in hang outs at that time and have more fun with it. At that time they are very much interested in music and play guitar, violin and some other instruments to impress their beloved one. But after getting marriage this kind of activities are merely waste of time. We have lot of responsibility and work hard to fulfill our needs and necessities. Some immature persons don't realize this things and continue their fun after their marriage, as a result the have frequent quarrels and fights and rush for divorce for this kind of silly issues. Married life is not an easy thing. We must be more responsible after getting marriage and work hard to fulfill all the family persons needs and try our maximum to keep them happy forever.

I think husband should not be prohibited on what things they are doing when they are still single, however, it should be limited. Furthermore, family should be the first one among others. A husband should also the one responsible in fixing family issues. Being married changes something but not everything especially when you got kids already.

and he is now married and a husband to his wife. i am not sure about the measurements of immaturity in this case. i think one of the measures of immaturity is not living up to the responsibilities of being a husband and father. when he enters into the marriage, he willfully embraces the tasks and responsibilities that go with it. someone he respects must talk to him to make him realize his responsibilities.

Well I have two sides to this. I've known some very immature husbands of friends and family members who cannot do too much for themselves. But my husband can fix a lot of things but can't fix cars ha ha so I wouldn't exactly call him useless. Not everyone is born with a wrench in their hands. But as far as the band stuff goes hey ask the ex wives of famous rockers like the rolling stones or Van Halen. Sometimes all that striking of guitars leads to riches. I'm sure those women aren't complaining even though they try to pretend they didn't like the ambition of their husbands.