Hello, how are you?
By LeeS0902
@LeeS0902 (67)
July 12, 2012 2:12am CST
It's the most common saying in almost any language, you say it on phones or in person, but do we actually care anymore? Do we care what the other person or people's response is? Or is it just a way to start conversation? used as a tool rather than genuine care about feeling.
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@nemrac12 (388)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
Hello, how are you is a simple and humble greeting we had. Its up to you how do you feel about it. When someone greeted you especially stranger, did you respond back? I do care about the greeting , if somebody greeted me of course i will do the same or respond back. Its only a greet, nothing will loose.
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Jul 12
Yes it is sometimes a way to start a conversation but not always. Sometimes we do it casually but sometimes we meet any beloved after a long interval and at that time there is a care and love in asking hello and how are you.Even sometimes we only smile without saying anything. After all it depends on relationship with whom you are talking.
@Johanna_swe (26)
• Sweden
12 Jul 12
Stuck from 3rd grade english lesson:
"How do you do? I'm saying to you. And you answer too, How do you do?"
:) :)
@Johanna_swe (26)
• Sweden
12 Jul 12
I learned the same thing...it's just a greeting phraze. When someone says How are you? always just reply with Fine, thanks and you? =)
If you start telling people that you slept bad, have a cold, have a sore leg or whatever...it will become awkward =)
@chasecalice (190)
• Philippines
17 Jul 12
I am teaching English to non-native speakers and at the start of every conversation, we really have these lines.First, these are one first words or sentences that they learned. It's easy to say and that's the start of the conversation or class.
@ptrikha_2 (46925)
• India
12 Jul 12
I think this is more of a customary greeting rather than actually implying whether we are concerned about that person or not. Yes, sometimes, when we are having a good understanding with another person, we do mean good when we ask such a thing. Otherwise, it is just a form of greeting or custom and nothing more.
@akash009 (452)
• India
12 Jul 12
hello,
well my friend you have pin pointed the best thing. I too think in this world now, this thing asking how are you have just become a formality. People does not care about anyone. They just think about themselves. They only come to you when they need you. Thats their only purpose of coming to you.
@Timeout (419)
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12 Jul 12
I wonder the same. I am from Spain and there people don't ask others how they are unless they are starting a conversation. If I meet a neighbour I just say "good morning".
A funny thing that happened to me when I moved to UK was that they taught me in school to say "How are you?" and "Fine thanks, and you?" no matter if you are good or bad, you just say you are fine.
Well, here people say "Your' right?", and I always thought I look ill or something so my answer was "Yes, why?", awkwardddd!