Ya ya, he said he is my friend only...IT sucks

@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
July 12, 2012 3:23am CST
One student in my department opened my PC for printing and did chat with my bf through my Yahoo ID when i was sick 3 days ago. The student told me about it and i check conversation history... My bf sent message to my ID and the student told i was sick then he uses my computer for printing only, and he asked my bf who is he? OMG, he said no, he is not my bf, just a friend only...He asked a student is my bf a Korean guy? a student said he doesn't know about it... I am very disappointed about it and i want to end this relationship immediately. I have nothing to say more with him...His love, it sucks....
6 responses
chicgale
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
Hehehehe Maybe your bf was just playing or joking about it. Talk to him about it and ask him. Hope, you are feeling alright.. Keep it easy!
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
13 Jul 12
Thank you... But right now I don't trust him more, my love is dying and i really don't want to talk with him more, i want to end this relationship in silent...
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
15 Jul 12
Thank you so much for your caring. I think so...i am not happy with him anymore, if try to continue, just waste time only...he maybe not my right man, i think...
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chicgale
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
14 Jul 12
Yeah, just think about it many times before you do your actions. But, if you thought about it already, go for it coz maybe you are not happy with your relationship anymore. I am sure you can find a better one. :-)
choybel
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
I usually joke and introduce my girlfriend as "just a friend or cousin", but I do that when she is with me only and I make sure that it sounded like a joke. I do not know what your boyfriend had in mind when he did that but you must talk to him and have a conversation about this, then decide for yourself. Good luck and hope everything will turn out right.
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
12 Jul 12
ya, in your case, it is a joke because your gf is in there, but in here, not a joke at all i think.. Thank you so much for your advice..however i have no idea to talk with him now...i am tired of it...
choybel
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
Like what hestylim says, take your time. When you feel like talking to him, then that's the time you should do it. It's better that you get into this conversation with a calm mind and heart so as not to make hasty decisions and say words you might regret later.
hestylim
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 12
If you need your time alone, ryanong.. just make some space. Don't force yourself.. It is not good for you.
hestylim
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 12
Hmm... sorry to hear that. It is sad to hear our own boyfriend said that things to others. Btw, your student chatted with your boyfriend via messenger, right? why don't you check the chat history? maybe then you will find the truth? Actually I don't find any reason why your student should lie to you. But, just to make sure that what he said is right before you go confront it to your boyfriend. I think 80% of chance, your boy will say that he was only joking to your student..
hestylim
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 12
Yeah, if i were you, i won't ask him either. There's no use in asking them because what you get is only more lies. I believe you know what is best for you.. :)
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
12 Jul 12
Ya, i read a conversation history on my ID when a student told me about a talking, and it is what i read... You are right, if i ask him, he will say it is a joke only, but no, i don't trust him more...it was not a joke at all when he replied a student's question.
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
13 Jul 12
No right excuse for it at all because if he loves me truly, he should not say like that when a student already told him that i was sick and stayed at home alone...no joking in here at all.. I hate him who plays on my love..
vidhyaprakash_2
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
12 Jul 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, may be he is checking that student, so only he told it in that way. Don't break your relationship for this silly issue, ask the reason from your boy friend.
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
13 Jul 12
If someone asks me about him, i am happy to say that he is my bf...but when a student said that i am sick, needs someone to care because i live alone, and he said no he is not my bf, he is just friend only...No, i don't trust him more, all are lies...
samiudheen
@samiudheen (44)
• India
20 Jul 12
Dont take any quick decisions. Just wait and ask him. May be his situation.
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
21 Jul 12
Thank you so much for your advice. I asked and his explain doesn't make sense.
skyandgrassplot
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
12 Jul 12
hey dear ryanong,pls take it easy,it is not a big deal for a boy cause boy always play some joke with others. So why not you come to your BF and ask?It is very pity to end a relationship just because of this stuff. Good luck,my friend.
ryanong
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
12 Jul 12
thank you for your advice... A joke? he knows that student works in my department now and why he could say like that? He doubts my love, he asked is my bf is a Korean guy? I don't think he loves me...if he really loves me he should reply he is my bf and don't ask stupid questions.