Try to control your temper

yes,i will agree with that,the more you can not control your temper the more you never think right,that is why some people speak so harmful when they are angry,so the thing we should do when we are angry is go to silent place and try to calm down our emotion.

Sometimes when we are angry, it is easy for us to lose our temper, but after losing our temper to someone, we will regret for it. Since we will regret for it, why not try not to lose temper or try to control our temper? This way we can always keep calm in face of anger. Anger is no good at all. Let's try our best not to lose temper and be rational as always. Have a good day.

Hi gretchen, thank you for reminding us how a descent and elegant lady should act. I personally like the song There's No Easy Way by James Ingram because I really like the lyrics of the song which tells us a story about a lady in its truest sense. In the song, there was this stanza that says that the guy expected the lady to be angry and blame him but instead, the lady just smiled and did not say a word and that she acted like a real lady until the end. Well, I know that it may sound a bit tough to do. I myself do not know if can be like her when infidelity comes our marriage. I may not talk or blame my partner for hurting me, but definitely I can't smile and I cannot treat him as if nothing has happened. You are right when a person lacks maturity, no matter how much education he has received, he would definitely forget them all and would emberrassed himself for not controlling his own emotions. I must admit that I also lack maturity because I usually get angry over some issues but when I am mad, I don't usually talk. I just keep it on myself.

I think so.Becuase self-cultivation is important and you become calm down and then have your own way to solve that.This is also better for our personal development.lol,good topic.

In some situation this is very difficult to control our temper because patience capacity is end. My husband everytime anger on me even for small reason and before my child then I loose my temper also.

control your feeling your behavior to get the best results in life don't take any Judgement when you are angry

Thank you very much with that advise. However the sad on my part is that my family are really on temper and it is too much stressful to live with them. Now I am suffering from hatred because of all the things they have done to me that affects my emotion.

Bad temper is inscientific and good temper is scientific. So its the best way you always proceed ahead being a cool and scientific head to make things ok. A person who has any bad temper looks very ugly and insignificant. So we must never get bad temper since we want to preserve our elegance of personality as a man or woman.

Hi friend, you are right, we must control our anger to avoid a lot of issues in our life, we face a lot of problems due to our anger, if we know to control it, surely we will avoid a lot of unwanted issues in our life. We must be silent whenever we are anger, it is one of the good way to come out from it