How Can I Let Him Go?
By Daisy_22
@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
July 12, 2012 9:23am CST
I am just an ordinary girl with simple life.After I graduate my course I started immediately to find job and luckily I got hired easily. Until such time I decided to go back to school to pursue my masters study and then I met him.We will just call him Bryan.He is a strict and silent type of person with a girlfriend. Never in my dreams I thought we will become like this.We became friends and become close and closer.Until time comes I'm already confused of my feelings for him.I don't want to believe that I'm falling for Bryan because he has a girlfriend already but i'm deeply bleeding inside.It is not an easy thing to do but I confessed that I love him,he apologized for he never intended of making me fall for him and he abruptly cut our communication.For a girl having a broken heart I give myself time, gone to disco club and have some vacation somewhere.A month later he suddenly called me asking how am I.I honestly answered, I'm moving on.But I can feel the sadness in his voice while he keeps on talking.As our conversation gone everywhere we end up talking about us.I dearly ask him, Was there a time that you've fallen for me? And guess what's his answer? YES I was in love with you before.The efforts that I made to let him go was all gone and what is left is all hope that maybe we can still be.We have the right love at the wrong time they said but If I will fight for Bryan,this question keeps flashing on my mind. Can I carry the burden in my conscience accepting him even if his girlfriend might get hurt?Why is it so difficult to let him go?What can I do now? My mind says it's correct but my heart shouts it's a big mistake...
4 responses
@chasecalice (190)
• Philippines
17 Jul 12
It's not really easy to let go of someone you dearly love. But the situation you were in is quite complicated. He has a girlfriend and I think he is in love with her. Try to move on and be a better person. True loves come.
Don't complicate your happiness and even your life.
@Alesma (167)
• Czech Republic
12 Jul 12
If I were in your shoes, I'd probably follow my heart. After all it's your life. At least I'd get things straight with him telling him what you feel. Ask him if he wants to be with you and is willing to leave his girl for you. You will then know what things are like and if it should get you down or not.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
It also come up into my mind but I guess I have already the answer. He is not communicating with me anymore. And I'm not also disturbing him. I'm giving him the time amd space that maybe he needs. I want him to really find out what I am to him before I will ask. I'm making things slowly for me also to have the coyrage to accept whatever is his answer to that question.To clarify things and to fully recover from the pain and start a new one.
@loveistheonlytruth (114)
• India
12 Jul 12
in simple words "let him go". face the truth why is he calling you again when previously he cut his connections with you. love doesn't men you guys have to be together sometimes distance is necessary to keep love alive and feel its beauty .. once married love fades away in maximum cases unless there is very high level of mutual understanding .. so girl cheer up and enjoy life as it comes to you ..
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
yeah right!That's what i'm doing now.I'm trying to give him space and time to think with his real feelings and to weigh things. It might sound foolish but you know what? I honestly hoping to have him back. I really do miss him now!
@gracie923 (162)
• Philippines
12 Jul 12
You cannot intrude in a relationship that's still working, tell you that's not the right thing to do. It will just hurt you more knowing that somebody will be hurt too. Karma will just come in and it's no good at all. What I can tell you now is go on, move on, finish your schooling and in time you will know that every thing happens for a reason.And I do believe when you let go, you are opening your door to the right person design for you and if He was really meant for you, in God's time you two will meet again in where Both of you are ready.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
Correct! Karma! That's the reason why I never dare to have him and destroyed his relationship because I don't want to experience same or even worse than what will be his girlfriend will do.Yes, it's true even if it takes time to be together again if we really destined for each other then we can be together again!