men's mentality . . .can you believe that?!

By nature, men & women are built differently... And I'm not talking about just the obvious either... Of course men & women are physically built different... But I'm referring to the way our brains are wired differently... Just an example, when men talk about their problems, they are generally looking for a solution... When women talk about their problems, they are generally looking for understanding & patience & comforting words, or assurances... Men could careless about comforting words, where's the solution... Of course like with anything else, there will always be exceptions... This point can't be more obvious than in traveling... Men are more goal oriented, women are more "process" oriented... When a man & a woman are driving on a long distance trip, men can't wait to get to where we're going... We could careless about the scenery along the way... Women tend to remember the scenery along the way... That's why men tend to be bad at giving directions, or bad with directions in general... We don't remember how we got there, we just know we got there... Details don't mean much to us, or not as much as the end result... Men tend to think their way through any given situation, women tend to feel their way through any given situation... That's why for men, things need to make sense, for women, things need to feel right... We men are, in some twisted way, same... Same way that women in general are the same... That's why when a man cheats, we're dogs... When woman cheats, they're not loved at home or they are liberated or they are anything that the blame comes around to men... They can't seem to look at things in logical sense of the way & that's because their brain isn't wired to... I'm not saying that's a bad thing, just different... When a woman cries, men tend to look for the cause & tries to fix whatever it was that made her cry... Woman cries & they're just looking for someone to hold them & listen & comfort them... That's why there's so many fights between couples & most common complain from either side is, "He/she doesn't u defrost and...". Of course we don't... We are wired to think different... When we are looking for a solution, they just want us to listen... When they tell us their problems, we ask why & what can we do to fix them... When we tell them our problems, they just listen & wants to know how we feel about them... We don't care, where's the solution... No wonder why couples get into arguments... This is by no means putting down women or to say one's better than the other or in disrespect to women, or men in that sense... Men & women in general will never understand each other to the fullest context... But as we learn how our brain works, and how they work differently from one another, we can get a better understanding as to why we think the way we do about each other...

well, just deal with it! anyways,you really are... aren't you? that's the notion you guys made us believe in. men by nature are polygamous that's why.

This is probably because it is more common to their knowledge and experiences that guys do the cheating. I cannot blame them as well for this type of stereotyping but it definitely isn't right. Anyway, like what you have said, it is better to just show it by living it and not really care about what they say to prove that not every men is the same.

yeah the battle of the sexes- it will never end.

And also, do u know that menstrual "things" makes women mood bad? The se*x drive of women tend to be associated with the menstrual cycle, while the men fairly constant encouragement. Testoterone hormone which is a major factor in stimulating se*xual drive, more women are stimulated by touch and romantic words. He was more interested in the personality of a man. While the men are interested in from what he saw. Men do not discriminate to whom he is physically attracted to, and does not require a lot of time warming up to have se*x. However, women often requires long hours of emotional and mental preparation.

Men are labeled as such long before. Stereotyping as they say, and giving us perception of men being these and that. Probably from number of cases male cheaters were involved or from number of cheated women involved. either way, but we cannot deny the fact that they(boys) may not all like that, but definitely some of them. yes, there are! thus, women have no way to know the other side of men not until they(girls) saw and tried for themselves. but it all comes to a point, falling in love is a very nice feeling. but heartaches, pains and sacrifices are all part of it. If you're not hurt, then you've never love at all. If he's really for you, then he will be.