Culture,belief and traditions. Do you still practice them?
By juhrina029
@juhrina029 (158)
Philippines
July 14, 2012 8:27pm CST
We all know that every individual have their own races or tribes followed by having their own tradition,beliefs or culture. For the past years, I can still observe many people practicing those traditions. But because of the continuous modernization,it seems that some of those traditions slowly vanish. I admit that I,myself,seems to not practice anymore some of our traditions. Can you share me traditions that you observe to be not practice anymore?
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7 responses
@bradzuo (24)
• China
15 Jul 12
you can say that again,man. my major is sociology and the phenomenon you have mentioned is just what i have beeng studing. i am from china ,chinese culture used to affect Korea and japan a lot and now they keep many parts of the culture of ancient china meanwhile we chinese discard them .for instance ,ancient chinese kneel down and kowtow to the elders to show their respect .now we dont do that anymore but japnese and korean do .that's a good traditon but we abondon it ,what a pity.
@juhrina029 (158)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Really? That used to be our lessons in sociology but it's not my major. I am just afraid that some of the cultures will be forgotten.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
There are traditions which we can ignore and there are which we don't have options but to conform with. Everytime there's an occasion, it's our tradition to always bring something, gift or money to the host or hostess. If we don't have anything to bring, we'll not attend. There's also this absurd tradition that we can't take a bath or comb our hair if there's a wake. I don't comply. I always take a bath. My parents and relatives always got furious when we don't comply.
@juhrina029 (158)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Actually, i used to disobey some traditions we have and the same thing my mom and dad get mad at me
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@juhrina029 (158)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Maybe supertitious belief. That happened to me before. They also don't want to tell me the reason behind. So, i just keep on doing it.lol.weird.
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
15 Jul 12
I have seen many changes over the years and one tradition that has changed a lot in the United States is asking the fathers permission to marry the girl. My husband talked to my father; however, many of my friends married without asking for the females hand in marriage.
The biggest change I see many people live together and have children without getting married. I'm married and believe a marriage can be successful for a life time; however, you have to be willing to work on your marriage listening to the other person and actually spend time together doing some activities. You can't have your way all the time and sometimes your going to have to admit your wrong. That isn't easy.
@juhrina029 (158)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Yeah, it's not easy because it hurts your pride. That kind of act, like marrying a girl but asking first the parent's permission is a very good thing to just easily forget. It would be easy if all men would do that to have the closeness with the girl's parents.
@eltobh (231)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 12
I am from Indonesia, and we have many ethnics here which still believe or use some traditions or superstitious beliefs. As we live in modern era now, some of them are not applicable anymore, especially when related to health matters. For instance, we believe that new born babies should be wrapped all the time with cloth all over his body, in order not to get him cold. I don't think it's practicable anymore, since we live in a tropical country, where it's getting hot every time now.
Another tradition that I observe not practicable anymore in my ethnic is that whenever we have this family gathering, like baby shower, or house warming, everyone should give advice or say some words to the person(s) who celebrate it! It is not very efficient, since everyone is saying the same thing, LOL. Now, I think people are thinking the same way as I am, we sometimes say that it is enough to have one representative from each family to do it.
The bottom line is that we should keep the traditions alive, but if it's no longer practicable, we should not do it anymore :).
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
17 Jul 12
i dont know what tradition we had as i grown up doing what we want to do and not by following certain tradition, though i guess other country still following it. i am still happy following what i want to do and not because of certain tradition.. though when it comes to belief yes i we still following Christmas and Lenten and we always do.
@mzgorgeous (85)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Here in the Philippines we do have a lot of traditions and belief that we don't practice anymore.In my own observation most of the guys here in our country forget to be gentleman(maginoo)specially in riding a bus or MRT/LRT(train)my grand parents will tell me boys in their generation is so gentleman unlike nowadays even an old woman is standing or even pregnant woman they won't bother to give their sits they just stare at them and I felt sad about it.I just hope that boys will realize that haist!
@juhrina029 (158)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
Certainly,yes. I am actually a Filipino and I observe,yes, men nowadays really forget the act of being gentlemen. It really turns me off whenever i will be in such scenario like what you have made as a sample. I would even offer my sit if i observe that boys seems to don't bother anymore.
@idea24share (439)
• India
15 Jul 12
Adopting culture now-a-days is not much possible but whenever the need we should adopt then only at least some satfisfaction we will receive from our mind.Following the tradition may be hard but it never gives any wrong thoughts when you followed it in a positive way.