I am SINGLE now...

I'm glad that you have come to a decision and are doing well with your decision. Often times it can be very emotional to end a relationship. But when you see the signs and listen to your mind and not your heart then it saves a lot of heartache in the end. A lot of people find that out the hard way.

but single is not happy sometimes.. iam late for responding here.. iam not busy but my connection never allowed me for connecting many website.. so how do you feel in the first day after breaking from your ex??

i don't really understand why some people can't survive without partners. being single is great as long as you have true friends

I never took relationships seriously but I know they affect us in many ways. It is good to have a good relationship in life. It gives us stability and mental power. If you find good partner then you will get success in what ever you decide to achieve in life. They say there are people madef or each other and I also believe in it. If you are currently single then you have to wait to find the right person. Having bad relation or the relations that give tension is bad for everything.

Hi friend, good to hear that you are single now. It is far better than having a relationship. As you mentioned, no more tears and no more worries while we are single. Wish you to continue this single life for a long

That's the attitude! Things happen for a reason and with a purpose! And pain are temporary. This will pass through. Im happy to hear that you stand for what you have decided! Good luck to you and continue to be positive!

Hi Ryanong, I'm sorry things didn't work out for you. Breaking up is always a little rough even though in our hearts we know it is the right choice. From the sounds of it, you went about it in the right way which will make it less painful for both of you. You gave it thought and you did not do it in a moment of anger or hurt and you did not try desperately for a long period of time trying to make something work that just wasn't going to work for you. Some people tend to hang on to a relationship thinking they need a good reason for breaking up like cheating or abuse or addiction etc. "It's just not working for me" is good enough and if done before things get ugly(and they do) then you might even be able to remain on friendly terms with the person once the dust all settles. It sounds like you made the right choice.

If you have not been able to work things out to this point, it makes sense to end the relationship instead of staying and being miserable in it. You sound as though you have a very upbeat attitude about it, and that is good. There is a big world out there, and it isn't worth it to sit around crying or feeling regret simply because a relationship did not work out.

Your attitude is right.Like there is a saying that you can own what really belongs to you.So what we can do is to accept and also using right attitude toward it.Good luck my friend and i hope you can find someone that really treats you as most important person.

It is nice to be single. hehehhehehe That is nice that you made the decision already...

Reading your blog, I could not keep myself away from it. It is quite same, if not exact, to my life. I am kind of done in my 3rd relationship now. I feel it is time now for me to break up. I keep saying myself that that girl is innocent, why should I punish her, and for only this reason, I am here. I am not able to feel. When I was single, I missed someone, but now I am fed up of this. Still I feel every thing will get alright, I just need to get back my passion for her. I am giving myself sometime. I am trying being optimistic but I would not be surprised ending up on the same boat as you are in.

No one can ever decide on yourself except you!If you think being single can make you happy,then there is no problem with that. I've been single for a year then i'm happy.Choosing to be single is a choice.I'd rather to be single than to suffer a frustrating relationship.Just give a break with yourself.

No matter what decision you may come up in your mind, it's okay as long as your happy doing it. Just take your time, Don't be in a hurry! Life is so precious we have to live it happily

Being single isn't being lonely; neither does being in a relationship would deem you complete. When I was back in college, I was in pressure of having a bf when all of my friends are having one. Then after college, I had my first real bf. And because I entered into that relationship out of peer pressure instead of because we're both ready, I experienced all of it: all the crying, blaming, the regrets, the what-ifs. We both decided that it's far off better for us both if we will just part ways. It took me 6 years before I enter another relationship armed with life lessons. And this time, I was blessed with the right one and not long after, we got married.

Single is sexy. hehehe I am sure you could not be more sure about your decision. Why continue going into a relationship when you're not happy anymore right? Good luck in life.

It is said that before you meet the right the prince or princess, you have to kiss many frogs. So this was one of the frogs you met. I like the way you think. You are very strong person RYanong. Keep the spirit going because you have yet to meet your princess. Have a wonderful day today.