Who would talk first after a fight? you? Or your spouse?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
July 15, 2012 12:45pm CST
It's quite common to have fights between the husband and wife. Who talks first after a fight? woman? Or man?
I know it depends on individuals. Yet we can find out who talks first more often.
I mean it can't be 50% each.
I do talk first if the mistake is mine. Sometimes even if it's not my mistake I talk first if I think there is no use in not talking. One day or other we have to talk, there is no other go. LOL.
How about you?
Who do you think talks first after a fight? Man? or woman?
4 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
When my husband and I get into fight, he is always the first one to say sorry even if its my fault because according to him the fight never happened if he remain quite and dont say any single word. When we just starting we fight a lot even in a small and unsense matter but we made sure to talked as soon as the temper cooled down and hugged each other to show how sorry we are. Also we made sure talked or discussed the cause of the fight from them we try to figure the possible way to prevent to have fght again regarding to that matter.
@else22 (4317)
• India
16 Jul 12
We rarely fight with each other.Whenever there is a difference in our opinions,we try to see it with each others' eyes.And we can't avoid a fight between us,we have a hard time not being on talking terms with each other.Consequently sometimes myself and sometimes she takes the initiative to restore dialog again.If I feel I was wrong,I confess my fault and so does she if she comes to know that she was wrong.We are life partners after all and we immensely love each other.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
Sometimes him sometimes i.. there are times when i know i need to be the one to pull down my pride, i go and say sorry even if it is not my fault, sometimes he does that. It does not matter who do it first what matters is how you value your relationship, if you value it more than your pride, then you will go and talk to your spouse.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
16 Jul 12
dear anna,
Honestly I don't remember much of these things anymore.
Besides, me and my ex don't fight much.
We're not on fighting mood all the time- or maybe we are just too compatible that we don't have things to fight for.
It's just that he has one habit that I am fed of and that breaks our relationship and you know it :xxx
