Do you have family members who act fake around you?

If I owe someone money and I still haven't paid them yet, I don't think I'll be able to face them, much less make small talk and spend more time with them. Some people are really thick-skinned that they are oblivious to other people's feelings. Maybe he is also acting that way because of the fact that your husband is his brother. Like he knows that they're related and all that if his brother doesn't mind getting his money back, then he sure as heck won't mind not returning what he borrowed, maybe that's what's going on his mind. I remember a friend back in college who borrowed money from all of us in our circle. You know how broke college students are, so we expect that the next day we will get our money back as she promised, but no. No money. We're all together in a couple of classes but nobody tried to bring up the issue. On the second week of her ignoring her promise to us, we finally sat down with her and ask when she plans to pay us. She just said that she doesn't have the money yet and that's it. It's so easy for her to dismiss it just like that. As of today, we never see our money again. But since that day, she wasn't able to ask from us again. Good thing your husband decided to take the matter with his bro.

so many people acting fake around me ,but no one acts fake so naturally and shamelessly .that's really a shame.

I think everyone has someone in their life that will act like this. It always seems to me that people don't really know who they are when act fake. you can't let it get to you or your just falling into their trap. I know it is hard to feel the way you about it but the best thing to do for the whole family is let your husband deal with it since it is his brother. It is good that your husband is taking care of the issue as soon as possible.