Single people and their choice to be single

Being single is definitely a choice, although one of my bestfriend didnt chose to be single however she is still single. I have a couple of aunt who remained single by choice, some of them lose the hope of finding the right person and some already found them and lost. Whatever the case maybe I know some people prefer to be single due to work pressures - no time to do anything let alone getting married. They love their career more than being married.

Being single isn't for everyone; in the same manner that marriage isn't for everyone. Single-hood/singleness for me is either by choice or by circumstances. That doesn't make them less of a person either way. I think it's a matter of how they spend their time as single persons that matters, as well as their attitude and outlook in life. Being single might not be always seen in a good way by most people because they always have this thinking that being single would mean you are alone and sad. Well, I think being single doesn't mean you are lonely. You can be married forever and yet you may have a very low social interaction. I know a lot of single people (my very own aunts to name some) who have a calendar full of activities than mine. But when I asked them why they never married, they told me that they have chosen to be single because they realized that marriage just isn't for them.

I'm single by choice. I have had many proposals, but never considered saying yes to any of them. Heck no. If I had said yes, my whole life would have been different. I like my life as it is. I am happy.

I am single, and for me, it was a choice I did because I really did not wish to care for another person in my life. The desire just was not there. As I did not feel that way, I felt it was not right to enter into a relationship, as it would be purely selfish. However, that was then. I have changed, and find that I would like to care for, listen to and make a nice home for the pair of us, whoever that may be. Basically, I wanted things to be authentic, and not just, 'hey, everyone is doing it, so it must be the thing to do'. Now, I feel the time is right. It's time to meet with another person and bond with them. But that is the reason I was happy to be single, was that I had no desire to marry. I still do not care for the idea of just 'getting' a husband. There has to be a strong degree of emotional bonding, or I'm not into it. I really want to bond with another person now, and be an asset to their life.

The relations that does not last long are not true.

Afraid of commitment and not ready to be hurt again is mainly the reason why I prefer to be single as of now.I know i don't want to be like this forever but i just need a little time to fix my broken heart.I also need to love myself again before i will love anybody else.I want that in my next relationship i won't feel pain again and that would be harmonious.

hi ranger, I am single for many years by now it's not this is what I wanted to be in fact I want to be in a relationship again but someone is not coming on my way. But I know in right time someone will come along happy mylotting