plz help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

friends are forever, and sadly gf may not necessary be forever. Did she gives you the reason why she forbade you to mix around with Sam? Maybe both you and Sruti should sit down and have a heart to heart talk on her request, and if you think it's unreasonable, relay the message across that as much as you love her very very much, sam is your childhood friend, and has became a part of your life, you just couldnt let him go out of your life just like that. If she refuse and insist you stop befriending Sam, I would seriously request you to stop and think whether is she the right one for you!

my friend I think u have go himalaya...

Sam is your old time frnd and u should not leave him just becoz of one girl. It seems she is having some enemity with sam, so whenever he comes closer to you, she also comes closer to you. You ask for the reason behind her talk.. but she is having valid point, then you can give secind thoughts

I think you need to talk to your GF, and i also feel sambo is right. you are a person and making a choice of what you want is all yours some one can not tell you what you should do and where you should go just because he or she love you. you are a independent think to your feet. All the best dear

Hey, I really don't know what you should do, hopefully someone below me can answer your question, I wish I could. Anywayz, have a great day MyLotting!!

don't leave sam! if she really loves you then she will accept sam, what if you leave sam again and that girl leave you again! YOu will lose both of them and for sure sam wont forgive you again. Believe me.

I am a 55yr. old man who has loved and lost several times in my life. It seems like you have a friend for life in Sam(which is my name also). I don't know how old you and your friends are, but one things for certain, you need to remove the collar from around your neck and take control of your life and happiness by doing what you think is good for you and your entire life, not just tomorrow or next week. I've spent a big part of my life thinking I had to have a woman in my life and trying so hard to conform to her every need; only to realize some women will always have something else for you to change about yourself or do for them to make them happy. Remove the Sruti collar and chain; stop doing tricks like a dog, and be your own person that will begin to see that someone definately want to be with simply for who you are. I could see your desperation in your many exclamation marks. Put those behind----------I'm free to be happy with who I am!!!!! Now go and be happy for yourself and happiness will follow with or without Sruti or Sam. God Bless

Please ask the reason why she wants you to leave sam if she loves you sheshould accept your friends too. But by the sound of it I feel there is something going around here. She is not comfortable with your friend and is trying to make you understand that. sometimes it happens with girls we just get bad vibes from some guy and we do not want him to stick around. But you must have a talk with her and sam to resolve their differences.