What would you do if you will see him again?

@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
July 17, 2012 6:59pm CST
After a broke up that you almost can't move on..here comes s time thst you will meet again with that person in a private gathering.How would you react? What would you do?
12 responses
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
Act as if nothing happened. Be yourself and show him how happy you are that you have moved on.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
That might be a good idea but do you think i'm just fooling myself?What if I will just show what i am rigth now?isn't it good to be honest enough?
@512771751 (1096)
• China
18 Jul 12
I will be as usual as possible. I think the more upset you are, the deeper you love him. When I see that person, I just regard him as my ordionary friend and ask some little question, such as how are you these days? what are you doing? That's enough.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
well you really a strong feeling and a brave soul.I guess being casual will be the best.
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
i think you just have to act the way you should. because if you'll try to conceal anything,it would eventually show. if you have already moved on and enjoying a happy life, then show it. if you're still keeping hatred with him, or so unhappy with your situation, it won't do good if you'll try to show the opposite. you need to be true to yourself, after all, how you feel is your decision and choice. for me, if one day i'll met one of my ex's, i would be glad to show him how happy and contented i am today. and how fortunate i am that i was hurt by him, because it just make me strong. i could also show him that life is more colorful without him and i would be glad to greet a friend in him.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
19 Jul 12
It can be really an awkward situation.For life continues and we may talk and that's not important coz it has been past.Maybe like normal friend.But quite hurt if i loved that boy before.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
It happened to me before but when I met him again I pretended that like nothing happened that he just like someone else in that gathering and act normally. But deep in side my heart I know that am still hurting and want to cry again. Good thing that incident happened because i realized that he is nothing to me anymore.
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
well, act as if you really have moved on. show him you're better off without him. because the more you want him back, the less he'll care about you. show him that you're happy and you're doing great even in his absence. don't pity yourself and stay alone at the corner, make friends with others as if your ex doesn't exist. nod or smile at him, just so he'll know that you recognize him but never ever feel uncomfortable by redirecting your sight or ways when his comes across yours. Make him realize the value what of what he had lost. Make him feel sorry for what he did. i did that before and it worked. :) hope that works for you, too.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
well thank you for that piece of advice!I hope it will also work on my part.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
i would react as if nothing happened between the two of us, i'll smile at him and greet him..maybe that time i already moved on, so i'll treat him like a friend..
@simonelee (2715)
• China
18 Jul 12
It would be awkward and obvious if you'll pretend you've already okay and happy without him. If you're really a good actress then he might think you're already move on. But, if not try to be with friends and lead the conversation to make you relax and divert your attention. Honestly, pretending is not easy especially when you're still in pain. Most women wish they bumped each other when they are already with someone and see them as happy couple and how sorry he is for letting her go.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
That would be very difficult but the best you can do is to get out of his way. Just try to avoid him or if you know he will be there better to not go there in the first place. Anyway, break ups are really hard especially if you truly love that person. But in time you'll find the courage to face him again. You need to help yourself and try your best to move froward. God has a purpose for that and you must learn from it.
@karyl15 (251)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
of course at first it would a great shock but i am a professional so whatever the past is, i will be as civil as i am. and i will just act bravely that i am fine because it will just be more shameful on me if i will make a scene so better stick with being civil even if its hard and i will leave the place and make a valid excuse to move out the gathering.
@imAbigael (475)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
Keep calm, hold your ground. The best things that you can do is to show him you can stand on your own. And stay beautiful sweety show him that your not the one who lost him. But he is! That's what I called "sweet revenge in your face!!!" hahaha **cheer up ;)
@pearlee (40)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
I know the feeling of that. I had experienced it too few years ago. It's quite difficult on my part either I would say "hi-hello" to him or not. I feel the bitterness also. I don't know if I would be mad or just smile pretending that I'm ok... But then I've realized that its better to still communicate with him since we were started as friends anyways...it's still ok if we will end it as friends also not strangers.. ;)