What is the position of friendship in your life?

@jricky1 (6800)
China
July 17, 2012 10:44pm CST
Now,i do not have a boyfriend.So i put family first and then my friend.They are so important to me and we can share anything together,no matter happy or not.I wanna know how you guys think about this? Thanks in advance and happy mylotting.
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nixxx05
@nixxx05 (309)
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18 Jul 12
I agree with you jricky1, if you don't have a boyfriend that is fine. You have your friends then. Family and friends are good combination in your life. Sometimes in my opinion, Boyfriend can distract us, give us a problem and sometimes make us crazy too. Kidding aside! I have a lots of friends, some of my high school friends are still my friends until now that i am already married. Just one call and they will come and visit me. Family is always there for us no matter what. If you did something wrong, have a mistake they will forgive you. Boyfriend sometimes, they cannot understand you, it will lead also to break up and will make you cry. I am not saying that all of guys are so naive, just be careful who will you choose. It is not bad to have a boyfriend. You are free to do what you want.
nixxx05
@nixxx05 (309)
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18 Jul 12
Back then, when i was still a single, My Family also is my priority. I always make sure that they are in good health. I always stayed at home with them. Every weekend i spend my night life with my friends.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Jul 12
Thanks for tell,my friend.Yes,having boyfriend is tired and we have to consider their feeling.Becuase you are not single so we have also to undertake some responsibiliies.It's really not easy.Good luck for us.
nixxx05
@nixxx05 (309)
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18 Jul 12
yes jricky1, if you have a boyfriend you will also think of his condition, etc...you have to prioritize them, give care and support.
Amyqiuxiao
@Amyqiuxiao (43)
• China
18 Jul 12
Family is however more important than friendship, but I can't image that I have no friends. Actually I think some words you are not willing to share with your family but with your friends. Because most of your friends have the similar age with you and they will understand your feeling more easily.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
19 Jul 12
Listen to so many mylotters' thoughts here.So i know that family can really be the first one that we care.I know and i will also learn to treat them better.To cherish what we have.
nixxx05
@nixxx05 (309)
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24 Jul 12
Yes jricky1, Family should always come first. It is very important. It is also important to have friends but be careful what kind of friend would you choose.
hsofyan
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
18 Jul 12
I'm more concerned with family than friends.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
18 Jul 12
Family is the first becuase we are given the life by parents and then we have to return back and be good kids of them.Also,friends are like our support,thus we are not alone.Thanks for share again.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
I don't want to compare my loved ones with my friends. They are all part of my life and each of them has special place in my heart.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
20 Jul 12
No,friend.Not being compared to anyone.It is just balance them with other people.But they all very important in your life.So good luck and i know we are lucky to have them.
dorannmwin
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Jul 12
It is very important for us to have great friendships in our lives. For me, I would have to say that I am lucky enough to have five great friendships in my life. I have my best friend that I have known since I was a very little girl, then I have a brother/sister pair of friends that I have known since I was a young adult, finally I have a couple that are friends of mine that I have known since I was in my early twenties. All of these friendships are very important to me and I know that I can go to them with any issues that I am having in my life.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
20 Jul 12
Yes,we have to learn to be gratitude for anything we have,having good friend accompany by your side is not easy and cherish your time being together.lol,the world is enough.Thanks for share and i think we feel the same.
karyl15
@karyl15 (251)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
friends are my next in line after my parents. like you i don't have a boyfriend but even so friends are still my next in line, because boyfriend sometimes let go while friendship lasts as long as you have a true friends with you. happy mylotting too.
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
19 Jul 12
I suppose friendship is important to anyone here and i hope that we can also really benefit from that.It helps us to share and go through difficulties together.You have friend to listen to you is really a precious thing to do.