Why do I do this?

I think some of us get so involved catching up to our own discussions that its hard to find the time to respond to others too. That is what has been happening to me lately! I have started a few discussions of things that have been going on in my little world and then I cannot get on for some reason and I feel like I have to play catch up so no one thinks I am neglecting them on my discussions. Ugh. Once I catch up a little I will be responding more. So, I requested you as a friend... Just wanted to let you know in case you missed it or something. Lol.

Don't feel so bad allknowing, I respond to many discussions sometimes and then I don't even get a response back or I'm skipped over. Now that's more aggravating to me. Sometimes people have a lot of friends and can only post to so many in a day. I try to keep mine to a minimum actually and try to respond, but sometimes I'm not here for days on end. You're still making your money with your responses whether they know you exist or not. I do understand though how you feel but not everybody will respond.

I don't care if they care if I still exist or not -hehehe. I am here to earn a few dollar for my internet bills etc. Besides, I don't know everyone here as well- just a few and those few are my real friends off-line :p

It may seem like ignoring, but believe me, some people really doesn't have so much time for spending online here. When I log in I first read my discussions - the ones I have posted. Answer them and then start searching where I participated to see if anyone answered me. To be honest most of the people doesn't pay attention to answer, or they write something short just to mark that they have read my answer. It's all good, if we really spend all of our time responding to someone who already has our response, our time for writing in new discussions will be so little ... or none. Don't take it personal!

How sure are you that we are ignoring you? Most of us are here to earn extra money. Some don't care whether they earn or not as long as they can post what they feel. If in case there are people who don't respond to your posts, don't feel sad. There are still others like me who are ready to respond to your comments no matter what.

Yeah, I've been ignored many times here... I just go: "oh ok, I guess my post is not worth to be responded or commented". And sometimes I understand that people have limited time to be here and prefer to only respond or comment to their friend's post. One time, though, I got singled out. All responses above and below me were eventually commented on except mine. And I could not figure out what could the reason be, either. There was nothing offensive with my response. That particular incident did bother me, and until this day I have kept the username in the back of my mind to never ever respond or comment anything on his or her posts.

Personally there are many times I will respond back to a discussion that someone else might have started, that is even still on my friends list, and it seems like I never see them respond back in their discussions or post back to any of mine and it does make me wonder. You would think more people would be interested in others here instead of it always being about themselves.

You respond because you feel like you have something to contribute. I look at it this way, even if the actual poster does not read my response or acknowledge it there will be others who do and it may help them out if not the one who posted it. I have some people who regularly respond and others who never do even though I respond to at least some of their topics.

Because you are one of the most awesome and active members that I know.

You are a nice person and you should really continue the way you are without changing because they didn't value. But if it's becoming tiresome to you then you should be more picky about the discussions and choose the more fun for you to answer first.

Well, your case seems a somewhat particular. From what I know, nobody here is ignored. At most it could happen (as it has already happened to me) that nobody responds to your discussion. This maybe because the subject matter, does not arouse the interest of any member of Mylot. I still believe that if you wrote some discussion, I'm sure some answers you will receive it. On Mylot, there is room for everyone!

Don't feel bad and don't make it a big deal. People here in mylot don't usually associate with other mylotters. Take note of that. They are not ignoring you. Anyway, just continue of what you are doing here and keep up the good work. Don't think too much. Focus on what you are doing.

I would miss you if I didn't see your name anymore. I think it is difficult to keep up with everyone and everything all the time. What I try to do in Mylot is respond to all my discussions I've started and read as much as I can in discussions I respond into. Not everything I read I respond to so that might be interrupted as ignoring but it isn't, not really. What I have not appreciated reading is how some members have stated that they will actually ignore people and do I suppose. I don't think that is proper. The only time I would purposely ignore someone is something I do not see too much of and you know what that something is. Why express it because those discussions are deleted anyway. Thanks for sharing your thoughts allknowing and please know I do appreciate all your time here. Thanks.

You are here not to show your presence. You are here to respond to a discussion, advice, comment and get responses on your discussions as well. People, as much as I have seen share their problems from every bit of life and this is where mylot is so successful. You come here with an issue and get suggestions from various users, wide range of professionals and experienced minds. You should not bother if someone remembers you or not. Just remain thankful to mylot which has provided you with such a stage. And the bonus part ofcourse is, YOU GET PAID FOR ALL GOOD YOU DO TO THIS SITE. Good luck.

Hi there... I have known you for a long time. You're an old myLotter, and so you deserve a lot of respect... Your post, I feel, is kind of personal. Someone's been guilty of not responding your post. I'm sure the post was very valuable.... My friend, give it time. Sometimes, people're occupied with other things and they don't get time to log in on myLot... They'll reply.. Sometimes, one writes crazy things & then don't feel like responding afterwards, because they feel, they shouldn't have written at all... MyLot is a huge website & there're a quarter million members. I've been here for 6 years and have learned to be patient...

I am not very good at making up discussion topics on here on Mylot. If I was better at thinking up discussions then I would be able to get responses on my discussion topics. So I guess I would be happy to even get one reply to any of my discussion topics. I think the only advice I could give is to think up a discussion that appeals to other Mylot members to reply to.

In what way you are ignoring by words or what? Or by not responding your discusion, if it say soo - it is normal it means your topic is not like to response. Give us more details about your problem here..

that is because you keep following up and the interest and desire in you keeps you to go higher and engrossed.so you are trying to be a active member.i dont think anything is wrong in it.good way to move higher and keep participating.that is actually a strong and effective gesture for all topics and discussion responses. If you keep doing this,it will automatically make people notice and respond well in the future if not now for sure. So keep up the good work always

How do you know people ignore you?I myself have responded to many of your discussions.I never feel so.Recently I had started a discussion and till now it has attracted only 4 responses.Should I start thinking that those who have not responded to it- and they include even most of friends on Mylot- are ignoring me?They must have their own reasons.I too have not responded many of their posts.I have joined Mylot to respond to and initiate discussions and that is what I have been doing ever since I have joined the site.