would you dare?

well ,if im sure he have a feling for me i will surely ask him about his true feelings, i guess it's worth trying for :)

It is better to take the risk or you will forever regret not doing it. I was once in a situation like that and I know its not easy. If you are friends for so long that you have to risk too. But I am glad I take the risk because now we are happily married and was blessed with an adorable little boy.

Maybe, he needs a start... I am a man, and I'm exactly like your guy. If I like someone I always find it tough to take the first step... But yeah, if she comes to me and smiles or asks me for something in the office, I take her to coffee, dinner or parties. My friend, give him a start.. And things will be fine.... :-)

With shy guys we must show the way we can and a girl must follow her intuition on that, she'll pass the message and encourage him to act. I don't think a girl taking the first step when they enter to a relationship, makes them feel too secure and unfortunately men are hunters since the begining of times so. But with a look, a well given smile a guy can understand without us having to say. But if the girl wants to go ahead and say it, clear it up, if the girl is the hunter in the other hand she should go for it.

maybe i can't dare to do it because i want to keep our friendship and i don't want to lose him. but if he will be brave enough to say it maybe we can have our chances but i can never say it first. i will just choose to be a friend than to lose him.

it is a scary thing to do, to admit your true feelings, but i think its worth doing being someone who hasnt done that you will regret it. so ask him or confess what you feel.

if you are so sure that he really have a romantic feelings towards you, and you also feel the same, i think to make things clear, it is ok to ask him what he really feels for you, your asking him may ignite it all, and would make him open up to tell you his feelings. women nowadays are more daring and vocal, and i see no wrong on that for as long as you can carry it well. it would be more difficult to be in a situation where you don't know where to put yourself, how to react on things and what to expect. so i think, if i am in the situation, i would ask.

Hi,being a male I can summon courage to express my feelings to my girlfriend.May be the girlfriend is simply a typical friend of mine and so doesn't love me.She would make her position clear thereby helping me come out of my hallucination which would be good for me.And if she loves me,then also she would express her feelings if I take the initiative to express myself.Don't hide your feelings from your friend[boyfriend].Let him know what you feel for him.Or,if you can't,then keep waiting for him to take the initiative.

Yes,i would dare if i feel that he has the same feelings with me,if you love,please to say it out loudly.

Hi dear Daisy_22,if I was you,I would come to that guy and tell him what I feel about him,of course I will saying that in a smoothly way. In my mind,if I do not talk to him and hide my true feeling,I will feel so regret in my future. So in order to no regret,pls get through it,so you will not feel repentant in your life. If you do not dare to move on,there are nothing happen in your life,so for your happiness,pls go for it,my friend.

Hi Daisy! If you are confident enough to ask him, then go. There's nothing wrong with that. But what if he doesn't feel the same way as you do? How would you feel then? I think that's the other side of the story then..

Hmmm, I guess when the coast is clear I will just ask him straight up about it lol! I know it requires massive, massive courage from my part, and enough self-confidence to be okay and all if ever he declared that I've been reading him wrongly. Of course, who wouldn't be sad when rejected? But before I do anything, I have to be sure I am sure on my next step once I get his answer, whether he says yes or no. If he says yes, I have to know if I am willing to take it from there to have a relationship with him or I'll just leave it at that, the consequences, etc. If he says no, will I still be okay to see him, will there be lots of instances that we will cross paths, etc. I know it's such a big pain with just asking him, but for me, it helps add to my courage knowing that whatever his response is, I'm ready.