never wrong
By wiguen
@wiguen (551)
United States
July 18, 2012 7:40pm CST
Why the person we love the most never realize they wrong? never try to apologize, is it because they being selfish?
8 responses
@buddha110 (15)
• China
19 Jul 12
Because they know that they are the most important people of you and you love them most, and no matter what they did to you, you will not leave them. it is safe to not apologize and even so they would loss you. it is not because they being selfish, it's because you loving them too much.
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@musicluv4life (1867)
• United States
19 Jul 12
I think its because they are afraid to admit they are wrong.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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19 Jul 12
they probably think the same thing about us, the people they love lol!
@AgentGulaman (3546)
• Philippines
19 Jul 12
Such people are close minded individuals. They only move to the direction that they know without concern of others or trying to understand other situation or idea. Yes, maybe they are selfish being self centered and mostly focused on their egos and pride. But since you love them, you just have to be patient and understanding with them or try to change them, which is quite hard.
@STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
23 Sep 12
They just don't want someone to tell them they're wrong. There are people that think they know everything , even though they don't. They just have to be the one that knows everything. It bothers me when you're having a discussion with someone and you state your point of view and they say you're wrong. When they tell you their point of view, it's the say as yours only they worded it differently,but it still means what you've said.
As to why they don't apologize it's because they don't think there is anything to apologize for because they haven't done/said anything wrong!
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
19 Jul 12
They say that you often hurt the one you love. As far as saying sorry, maybe they feel so comfortable and so secure with their partners' love for them that they just don't bother, without even realizing that it's hurting their partners.
We need to effectively communicate to them what hurts us, and what bothers us. If after that they still cannot admit their mistakes, then I guess they're just scared to admit that they have wronged us ("you- know-I-love-you, I-can't-hurt- you-like-that" kind of thing).
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
21 Jul 12
I really think that the reason that people, well at least some of them, never realize they are wrong could be they have been made submissive at one point in their life. Perhaps an over bearing father, mother or friend/sibling. sometimes there are people who have suffered being in a submissive position and had to fight to be heard. Once they are grown and out of the nest, for some, they compensate a little too much, and thus become a little too dominant. It might be the case in your life, if so, try to find out such things and work out a solution. let them feel assured that you will not pull the rug out from under them and become a dominant bossy person. Remember, many people lose their lives and interests to bossy people. Some realize this and swear that it will never happen again and end up going too far in the other direction,