Any person who always jealous of happiness of others?

@Zhizho (1350)
Indonesia
July 19, 2012 8:45am CST
There is a story in electronic cinema television in my country. I could not imagine if there is person like antagonist figur in the real world. The family (husband and wife) are so jealous of happiness their neoughbor. Eventhough their neighbor always so kind to them. The antogonist figur happy to see their neighbors problem and it will the problem to them when their neighbor happy. although there is no reason to hate or jealous. do you think tha Any person like that in real world?
8 responses
@hsofyan (3446)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
19 Jul 12
Envy / jealousy is only owned by people who are ungrateful to their condition. And people like that exist around us. Hopefully, we don't.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 12
I see mr Hsofyan. There is people like that in social life surely. It show that they can be gratefull and never satisfied to get their condition and one thing I think that they forget that There is God who has setting all of our fate. Yes, wish God always protect us from the bad character. Thanks for your comment.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
19 Jul 12
You'd be surprised that oftentimes, the people who are like that are usually those closest to us, like family, relatives or friends. When jealousy strikes, woe to whoever is in its path. For neighbors, its always the classic case of "keeping up with the Jones'". For friends, its always like when they're all together they're the perfect best friends. As they tend to do the same thing, and if ever one proves to excel and the other one is not so much, add to in the peer pressure and constant comparisons and you will no longer be surprised if the frient will start resenting her best friend's successes.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 12
I just thinking, There is must be reason to jelous to other. It does not matter when you jealous for your friend success and make it to work more good to get the best without hurt them. But it is not reasonable if you always jealous about their cindition and glad to see your friend failed eventhough it is not make impact for you.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 12
Jealousy would always exist. Every person has a sense of jealousy, and envy. Only, there was someone who could control, and some can not control. People who can control her jealousy, are the ones who gratefully. People who can not control feelings of jealousy, are the ones who are not grateful.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
19 Jul 12
I have a friend like that. She is a very nice girl, but she married few years ago and has a kid. She is actually 1-2 years younger than me. Before the kid was born they already had problems with her husband, I was never suggesting her what to do, just because I was not and I am not in her shoes. All she had from my side is support that she is right to be mad at her husband, because the situations they get in are not normal. Now when few years passed I am doing much better than her. Whatever problems we have with my boyfriend it's mostly based on financial problems and our stress of having no money. But still I think these things are not that important, it is not like we have problems in general meaning about the way we live or the way we act with each other. Exactly that type of problems she has with her husband. It looks like he is not thinking as a grown up man, as a man with kid, he still wants to go out with friends in the late evening, also he is changing different jobs without thinking how his family life depends on his salary. I suggested my friend to start doing the same online job, as I do. She said no, it's not a thing I can do. Now when we chat at skype it's a normal thing if I share good and bad with her. My happiness comes from the moments when we have enough and I feel pleased and happy. At the same time I feel she is glad for me, but still feels like we compete and I'm sharing all not because I am happy and I want to share my happiness with her, but because in some crazy meaning to tell her how I do better than her. That made me very mad long ago and I stopped chatting with her all the time, it's not like it was time ago, we still chat but not the same way. The distance we built between each other is based on her jealousy. I don't know why she acts like that at all. There was a time when her husband left her flat and they were living alone with her daughter for a bit. I offered her all I could afford to help her with the words that I don't need the help back (the money back) or at least don't need them now, so she could give me back what she felt like giving back later when she is able to.
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 12
Thanks for share your story here Sugar. Well, if I am not wrong to get the problem in your experience, you friend look like sensitive person maybe it because her problem. So, she feel like what you tell just to compare your situation with her situation. How poor she is. So, just keep support her and make her believe that you are pure to share, there is no something to make her jealous.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
Yes, they are people who are like that and I even know some. I have this neighbor who is married and has two kids. Everytime I or other people around her has new things or celebrations, she acts like mad or envious. I told her what is her problem but she never answered. She only wants to be the one who is always happy. I guess aside from being jealous of other's happiness, she is also insecure and selfish person. I hope she will change.
• India
23 Jul 12
Hi friend, lot of persons are available in this sort, some persons having some issues with neighbors and waiting for the opportunity to attack them. WE don't get any benefits with this kind of unwanted quarrels and other things. We never get jealous with other persons status and happy with our present status
• Bangladesh
19 Jul 12
Hi zhizho, Its me, you all are more or little antagonist. Antagonism occurs very much with the near ones perhapes. If we recognise ourselves as antagonist, then the problem may start to end a bit.
• India
19 Jul 12
Yes I have had acquaintances in my knowledge who are very jealous of other people. I initial had an impression that they had this attitude only for some, but gradually I discovered that it is embedded in there soul. They are jealous of others' achievement. Also I saw this thing with my girlfriend when I talked to some other girl, but then it adds sweetness to relationship. But I didn't find these people very awkward to be friend with.