would u let someone pick ur date
By shorty08322
@shorty08322 (1270)
United States
July 19, 2012 10:47am CST
this is when you cross the line with me one you dnt to put some i dnt knw in my way im to fast for him and telling me to give some one my number and he cant talk like me and keep up with me what i look like i dnt like to play match maker
3 responses
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
19 Jul 12
Ummm ... I am not really sure what you are saying here. Are you asking whether or not we would let someone we knew pick out a date for us ... here we would call it a "blind date", because we have never seen the person ourselves ... is that what you are trying to say? It seems that you are saying that you would not like someone to do this for you, because you are afraid that they would not pick the right person for you - is that correct?
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
20 Jul 12
you say that but what im going is when meet someone and they keep saying the samething and they family got to talk for them now you tell me how that look and he got to ask everthing now you tell me
@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
20 Jul 12
It sounds like the two of you do not get along and his family is still trying to get the two of you to be a couple, even though you do not really like him. That is not a good situation to be in. I would try to be nice and just say that the two of you are not really compatible and are not a good match for each other. You could tell them that you appreciate their interest, but that you prefer to pick your own dates - that is polite but still firm that you are not interested.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
19 Jul 12
this is a awkward situation for you surely .then try to match up with some good skill activity like talking with him in a correct way and not beyond it.anyways i never let anyone to take undue advantage about my date so i always keep it in control.it might work well if you know your limits of match making
@shorty08322 (1270)
• United States
20 Jul 12
yea i do i dnt want noone doing it for me like family friend trying to get me with they gril friend family that isnt me he is slow i mean mentality
@leighz (456)
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19 Jul 12
For me, no there's no way. It's an added pressure knowing that this person was picked for you, since your friend thought that he has the qualities your looking for and you have to act your best. In addition, it will be frustrating on your part to learn that the guy "can't talk the talk" so better say no to blind dates.
