When do you say it's OVER?
By Daisy_22
@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
July 19, 2012 5:46pm CST
Everthing in life must come to an end even our own lives.People whom touched our life may come and go.Good jobs may end.Relationships may also be destroyed but when can you say it's over?Up to what level of sacrifice are you willing to carry for the sake of reviving the relationship you've keep for so many years?
10 responses
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
19 Jul 12
That's kind of a hard question because I think people give up to easy these days. There are times when I've wanted to say it's over and same with her too. My girlfriend and I bought this house together and neither one of us make enough money to handle it on our own, which I know is a bad idea. But it's part of what keeps us together and one of those days we think we can't stand each other comes 2 or three weeks of really laughing and talking and being there for each other. I think you say it's over if there are no good days after couneling. There is a very good podcast every week called oneextraordinarymarriage.com. they have saved many marriages just from their topics everhy week.
@juliana23 (2)
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
its true that really its hard to say goodbye to someone who's been part of your totality already but when time comes that your the only one who's willing to fight for that relationship and your other half seems doesn't one to fight for the relationship anymore then maybe its time to give up
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
When you feel like you're not happy anymore no matter how you try just to keep the relationship and bring back the happiness. When you have sacrificed too much..
@Cale2012 (114)
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20 Jul 12
This is a difficult question to answer, because I don't have any outline to guide me "when do you say it's over?" I often don't want end neither affair or work. I always hold to final stage until I can't excape from this solution. You need say something like "bye see you again". I know meet together is so hard. what in your life is valuable? Most person cant say end in time,because we are human who own high intelligence and emotion can't do decison only by logical.But, today I can judge one thing that do everything you like, and make a future view to decide which need to stop? It is a block in follow way. Couple only taste each other is available to themself. Keep your eyes in lighting on everything.
@chasecalice (190)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
It's not easy to say 'It's over' in whatever you do even though you love or not love doing it. If there are problems I think you have to think and find ways to solve them and when it's done that's the time that you say to yourself that it's definitely over. No need to sacrifice more if you know it's not worth it.
Happy Mylotting!
@arpazia (191)
• United States
23 Jul 12
My mom told me that i will know its over when i think of life without the person and im happy.
When he/she isnt around and your find with that,than i think its over.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
20 Jul 12
It is so hard to make a decision whether going on or stopping. It is even harder to say OVER. Especially for me, I don't have the couragement to say over, I am always afraid that I make a false mistake.
@criscullen (21)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
there's a sense of commitment in your part in the word "OVER". YOU give a full act of the word, not temporarily but as an end to everything.
@Raine38 (12389)
• United States
20 Jul 12
Its really hard to say when its over, as its a very subjective state of mind. Its like how people say a glass is half empty or half full, different people may see a circumstance as an opportunity while some will even see it as a sign to give up.
I think for me. When something starts to do you more harm than good, when you never stop hurting and when it ceases to bring out the best in you, then its time to end it.
