the greatest fulfillment in life

Philippines
July 20, 2012 12:13am CST
i am running 24 when i get married. and up to now i am still trying to conceived a child but time is to greedy for me to have. but i am still hopeful though. i already went to see a doctor and or a quack doctor for me to have one but still no sign of it or me having it. i don't know what's wrong since i have my period regularly and i am not abusive with my health. ladies, if you have some suggestions or recommendations please let me know. thanks!
5 responses
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
What did the doctor said when you consulted? I also have tried to visit an OB gyne before and they would usually give an explanations as to why someone is not getting pregnant. You will be checked and your husband as well. How long have you been waiting? They say that if it is already a year of regular contact (at least three times a week) and you still have not conceive, it is better to visit a doctor for advice and medications because this maybe a sign of infertility. Avoid stress because this can be a factor why you still have not conceive. The nature of your work might also be a reason. I do not know if this is true but I have also read that avocado is good for women who want to conceive.
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
Isn't it ironic sometimes that those who are longing to have babies would experience difficulties in conceiving while those that are not yet ready to that kind of responsibility are getting pregnant easily? I have been TTC for the past six months and still it is negative. I hope that you and your husband would eventually find the right timing would be blessed with a healthy baby.
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
thank you, i guess our luck is on the way but all we have to do is to wait.. never tired of waiting.. :D
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
i had an ultrasound but maybe it has something to do with my right fallopian tube that it is producing more *ggs and it will not mature but my left does and it is normal so it will take us time to have a good timing on how we do that as to when my left fallopian produces the mature *gg. but anyways, thanks much i appreciate it. :)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
i was 32 when i first have a child. we been together for about 5 years before my wife got pregnant. we don't use contraceptives or anything. anyway we are busy that is why for us its just fine not to have one. but as time comes, we realize that we're getting old. we expect that one of us is not fertile so there is no chance of having a baby. but we really desire to have one so we start searching the procedure on how to adapt a child. we are disappointed since we do not qualify to adapt a child. a month later she got pregnant. I believe that God saw our sincere desire to have a baby. Thanks be to God.
• Philippines
7 Aug 12
it's good to hear that. lucky you and congratulations. :)
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
maybe it's not yet time for you to conceive or to have achild,maybe God has a plan for you and you just have to wait..if you don't mind me asking,did you ask your doctor if there's something wrong on your horm*nes?or maybe your husband have a low sp*rm count..
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
i doubt it has he has low sp*rm count. maybe this is the result of our vises before. sad to say, i know and hopefully we will have at once and we'll be happy about it.
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
You said that you have been to a doctor. What did the doctor say? You can also try another doctor (a specialist) so he/she can give you advices. If you are really healthy, then maybe,this is not the right time yet. Be patient enough..:)
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
definitely, patience is a virtue after all. :)
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
20 Jul 12
The best thing to do is consult a specialist, you and your husband. There are a lot of causes for infertility or difficulty in conceiving that are very treatable and can be corrected in no time. Early detection of the problem is always the key. Its not always about a healthy reproductive system that's causing some problems, but sometimes the overall general health of the parents. So to better address what could be really the cause, go to a specialist on fertility. There are some conditions that do not exactly have symptoms and only upon check up will it be detected.
• Philippines
22 Jul 12
yeah, we've been there when we are still living in manila. but still nothing happens, i guess we are unable to make it out since my work and my husband work is too far from the doctor. and the place we are living now, it's very hard to find a infertility specialist. anyways, thanks so much for the advise and concern. :)