we just LOVE our son...almost did not bring up. For how many of you valid it?

Bulgaria
July 20, 2012 4:03am CST
Hello myLotters, I have a 5 years old son, who is hyperactive I think, he does not listen when I say to do something or not to do.How I could control it?
4 responses
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
I too have 3 yr. old son, he's very hyperactive as well, sometimes i don't know already how to deal with him specially when hes on the stage of tantrums or in the naughtiest stage.Sometimes its like iam going to give up, but since i am a parent, and we love our kids, we don't have an option but to face it and becomes determined and tactful in dealing the problems.I have read a bible based article about Reliable Advice For Raising a children.If you believed the content in the Bible, the book of Deuteronomy 6:7 says that "You must INCULCATE Bible principles in your son and speak of them when you sit in your house, when you walk in the road,when you lie down and when you get up." So it means spending enough time to our son.I know its hard to follow this sometimes but when we do, its very beneficial because our kids can become open to us and they can become closer to us.So both parent and children can have an open communication towards each other, which is vital for the unity of a family.The bible also speaks of discipline, in Proverb 29:15 it says that " The rod and reproof are what give wisdom".But depending on the situation still cos sometimes a rebuke as well works deeper to someone with understanding...^_^
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
I too have 3 yr. old son, he's very hyperactive as well, sometimes i don't know already how to deal with him specially when hes on the stage of tantrums or in the naughtiest stage.Sometimes its like iam going to give up, but since i am a parent, and we love our kids, we don't have an option but to face it and becomes determined and tactful in dealing the problems.I have read a bible based article about Reliable Advice For Raising a children.If you believed the content in the Bible, the book of Deuteronomy 6:7 says that "You must INCULCATE Bible principles in your son and speak of them when you sit in your house, when you walk in the road,when you lie down and when you get up." So it means spending enough time to our son.I know its hard to follow this sometimes but when we do, its very beneficial because our kids can become open to us and they can become closer to us.So both parent and children can have an open communication towards each other, which is vital for the unity of a family.The bible also speaks of discipline, in Proverb 29:15 it says that " The rod and reproof are what give wisdom".But depending on the situation still cos sometimes a rebuke as well works deeper to someone with understanding...^_^
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
As a parent, instill respect and love to each of your family member. Childhood stage is the best phase where we, parents, should teach our children respect and obedience. Start from making simple rules at home and give him small responsibility such as keeping his toys after using it.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
20 Jul 12
sometimes it is normal for kids this age especially boys to to be active. but also if is too active or hyperactive and wouldn't listen..it could be something is wrong..just observe and if you have any concerns try bringing him to a specialist to have evaluated about his behavior..just to be sure,,