Does FIRST LOVE really NEVER DIE???

Why did you guys decide to end the realtionship? I hope nothing seriously happened in a bad way. I do know its a hard thing to get over, i still remember mine and at time i do thing about it but i have had several boyfriends since then and now im happy with who i am and i have learned from my mistakes and there are things you look for in a person and i hope you can find the right person to marry one day. Happy Mylotting.

If it does not die, then it first love. first is so memorable we cant forget about it.

aawwwww, that's sad but i am so glad you don't keep any baggage with you about the break up. i could sense that you're maintaining a good relationship with him, because you still love him, besides the fact that he's the one who breaks up with you for another girl. i admire you for that. as for your question if does first love never really die, i think as you move on and get's mature, the romantic feelings will just cease and all that you'll have will be the good memories of you both. it will take time before you'll be able to stop yourself from comparing him to your suitors/admirers, but someday you will. i wish you godd luck and have a happy love life ahead!all things happen for a reason, you deserve someone better!

Hi,itsmechelle~ Wow,8 years and 2 months. I remember my first relationship lasted for a year and it took me six years to recover. It was puppy love. And sometimes I look back and wonder: Was it really love? Did I really know what love is when I was that young? But either way, I know I went crazy about him once and he broke my heart.We still contact each other now, and sometimes I wonder what it would be like if we are together again.But I always shake that thought away because I know we have both changed growing up. But the truth is, after six years, after all these things happening in my life, I still think about him. It is impossible to ever forget your first love. And yeah,you will always have a place for him in your heart. Sometimes you even compare your new love with your first. These things happen. There is nothing wrong with looking for someone like him. Because he once made you comfortable and you know he is the type of guys you would like. But just like you said, life goes on. One day, you will find a guy who loves you. He may be like your first love, he may be not. If he is, don't confuse him with your first love,'cause that would be unfair to him.If he isn't,don't say no to him just because you're reluctant to let him inside your heart. It's over,and deep down you know that too. It kills to admit it, but there won't be anything you could do to change that fact. So don't drive a good guy away just because you still want to cling to the past. Hope you strong and well~

I hope you are feeling better now itsmechelle. I really do not know what is so special about our first love but I have experience that I can't seem to forget the first man I have loved. We were classmates in high school and I am so in love with him that time. But I was too young then and although he knew that I have feeling for him, our relationship remained as friends. I have been in a relationship with other guy for the past years but yes, I still have not forget about him. I even looked for him in some social networking sites and would always try to bridge communication between us. I felt like wherever I go and whoever I am with, he would always be a part of me and will always be. But I have stopped thinking and longing for this guy when I met my husband. I also hope that in the near future, you would find this one true love of yours and would help you move on with your life.

Hmmm. I think its a case to case basis. like for someone like you who's been with your ex boyfriend for quite a while. We tend to compare the next guy to the previous which makes it difficult to move on. Eight years, wow, I don't think you will ever forget that but I really hope you will find the right guy for you. You're young and there are a lot of things ahead of you. So good luck!

Yes I heard about "FIRST LOVE really NEVER DIE" . I n my life never had any romance . So I couldn't say deeply about it .

it is hard to say. i know someone who is trying to rekindle a relationship with their firs love and it did not end up that well. the found out that they should have left better off alone. the exception is when you have a first relationship with someone and never break up with them....okay, that's different. it's also rare. what broke you up the first time?

You are right,my dear friend.I too believe that it's not possible to completely forget our first love.We just think that we did.I too thought the same,but,i always end up in her memories.

That's really sad. Well since you reached 8 years that's definitely hard to forget, but for others it may be a different story. If you really want to move on, stop comparing the next guy you date with your ex. You have to accept that things are different now, from the sound of it you are still not willing to let go. That is probably why they say it's better to treat your ex as an acquaintance rather than a close friend, if you don't want to complicate things.

Well i dont know just about first love. But i think that if you really love someone then you will never stop loving them. You may not have a strong connection as you did before but I think there will always be a part of you that cares enough to have love.