I really wish to have a kids...

July 20, 2012 8:07pm CST
We've been married for almost 5 years, but until now we dont have a baby yet. We already consulted an OB-GYN,and we are both capable. i resigned my work, vacation, taking vitamins, following doctor advices but still...nothing! maybe it is not the right time? How i wish to conceive this year.
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• United States
21 Jul 12
What worked for me was making better food choices, exercising at least three times a day and losing a few pounds. My choice of exercise was Zumba whcih I did faithfully three times a week. I also cut out almost all sugar and drank a gallon of water a day. It took a few months but I finally conceived. My son is now 20 months. I hope this helps.
21 Jul 12
Thank you monashea1 for your advice...i will try that excercise, hope it will work for me also. God Bless.
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@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
3 Aug 12
Hi, I know how you feel because am trying to conceive as well. I know that 5 years of waiting is hard and may have caused you great pressure and emotional stress. I desperately want children. I thought that it would be easy but like your situation, it is not. I also thought of leaving my job and stay at home thinking that this maybe the reason why I am not pregnant until now. I have visited and OB gyne once, and will consult again mid of this month. I have read some articles regarding this, have followed some of them, and still negative. But am still willing to wait. I know some people who are already at their 40s and was able to bear a child so let us not lose our hope. Pray hard it really works.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
Hi! Don't worry everything will fall into place in the right time. God has a always a better plan for us so just keep your faith in Him. The best of luck to you and your family. By the way, I can see you are just new to mylot so welcome and enjoy so stay here.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
21 Jul 12
I know how you feel, we are also trying to conceive for two years now. We even have one unsuccessful IVF. We're healthy, there's nothing wrong with us that will hinder us from having kids but sadly... Anyway, right now all we can do is to keep the faith and hope and pray. Not get stressed nor pressured by this and just take one step at a time each day, we know that eventually, our prayers will be answered in God's own time.