why people hate failure ?

It is natural to hate failure, what is hard is accepting and learning from it. I believe nobody really wants to fail, otherwise the efforts are useless unless there is a reason to do so. I also believe that failure is just delayed success.

I guess that happens when we have high expectations for ourselves. we can only do as much. Another reason is shame.

Well because they cant accept failures. They should learn how to accept and make it as motivation to strive and work harder for them not to fail the next time.

It has a quite obvious answer. Every one wants to be successful in whatever he/she is doing. Failure is just opposite of what they wished for. Despite of knowing and accepting that it is a common and obvious thing, I advice people not to get disappointed with few failures. I am experienced enough to learn from my past, and crying over failure is something I will not appreciate anyone for. Though realizing the fact that you have not succeeded in your task is a bitter truth but you should always have the courage to get out of that trauma.

failure and success are like salt and sweet.Every one likes sweet,But no one likes salt.One thing we should remember if dont take salt, iodine percent will come down.Similarly if we dont have failures in life,we dont really taste the success.failure is part of our life.people never get better success with out failing in first steps.

True indeed. We may not want to have failures in our life but we really can not get away with it. Nobody is perfect even the most successful man in the world in some other time experienced failures in their lives. For me it is relative, people who hates failure is a loser because a true winner can use his failure as an inspiration to strive hard and aim for SUCCESS! Be happy!