WE usually do things.....

Philippines
July 21, 2012 9:56am CST
Me and my husband are still starting our family and are still adjusting to the changes after our marriage. Before, we almost have all our free time just for ourselves. Joy-riding, food0tripping, movie marathon, club hopping, nature tripping and a lot more... But things are different now, we have our 3 month old son and we have to stay at home to tend him. We have to prioritize things first and have our wants and desires for ourselves. But we always have time for each other, maybe less of some out-door activities, but basically it doesn't change anything. For now, we are happy and contented staying at home with our little angel. # Looking forward for our outdoor activities in the future together with our baby, probably he is old enough to enjoy things his parents used to enjoy too.
6 responses
@tkdcapz (42)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
Congratulations on your happy family! This is just what life is, changes always happen. what really matters is that you, your husband and your child are happy. :D
21 Jul 12
Im thankful to my child cause after i gave birth i realize i cant live with his father anymore.After divorce,i was so happy.Kids open our eyes sometimes
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
We've been to that situation as well nathan, like we could not really go out really late cause were always thinking about our little baby. Now were adjusting more, we manage to divide our time for our kid [who is now 2 years old], for each other and some time off for ourselves. , and I'm pretty sure you'll get to that point as well.
@niairen01 (1018)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
It's the joy of having family together. Having to give up things that you enjoy the most and prioritized the most important thing in your lives. Your children. it what makes your relationship more priceless since you both have to sacrifice something and in return receive the most rewarding experience in life.
• Canada
21 Jul 12
This, I have to admit, was one of the hardest things for me as well. Eventually, everything just falls into place. You begin to realize that the time you ALL spend together is the time you prefer. Yes, you will miss some things, but that is what babysitters are for. Right now it is all new. These are the precious times, the times that you never want to miss. My son is almost 14 now and we still spend a lot of time together. I am now dreading the time when he moves away! This is only a few years away. I remember when he was 3 months old like it were yesterday and I remember when we used to say that it felt as though OUR time together was getting less and less. But then we realized how much we treasured the time we had with our son. It is scary at times, but you will soon see. Congratulations by the way!
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
21 Jul 12
I can say me and my husband are still on the early stages of our marriage; we weren't blessed with a child yet so its just the two of us enjoying each other's company. But we both know that once the baby comes along, our wants and needs will take the backseat and the baby will be top priority. Besides, we can still have while raising our baby; there must be some adjustments on how we do things but nevertheless I don't think it will make it any less fun.