People...Wow, unbelievable...

The only thing you could do is just lay it all out to her and be done with it once and for all. I don't like confrontations either, but sometimes we just have to get into them to either clear the air or and something that needs ending.

Lovingmy babies do what you should have done.Tell her, so and so since you have treated me like dirt, we are no longer friends so do not pester me or I will ask for a restraining order against you. You really have to stand up to someone like that that will not take no for an answer.I would never go to someones house specially if I had been rude.If she keeps annoying you just make out a restraining order against her at the police station.

If someone actually showed up at my home, I wouldn't answer the door. And if they continued to hang out on my front step, or worse, starting pounding on the door, I'd call the police and let them know that someone is at my home and making me uncomfortable. I just say that I'm a single woman and that I'm not sure who's outside, but they're loud and I'm scared. Tell them that you're home alone with young children and then the police can come and deal with removing her from your home. But make sure you teach your kids that they are never to go to the door or window. I also hate drama...I actually moved 65 miles AWAY from the drama kings and queens in my life because I was sick of it. But if someone is really bothering me, I let them know...and then I walk away. I just don't have the time or energy for that kind of crap any more.

If this person is starting to really bother you to a point, then i think I'll threaten her to a restraining order if I was in your case. I wouldn't want to have to be worried about somebody appearing in my doorstep all the time unexpectedly, especially if all that someone ever brings is trouble or problem.

Do not answer the door,stay inside.She sounds like a real wind up.Or maybe she really does not know what she has done.Keep letting her down ,forget you had to meet her,have a headache ect she will soon get fed up and find someone else to drive round the bend.

We don't make appointments with our friends before guest visitation here. It is just not one of our habits and not every time the guests we have are invited. But I understand your situation very good, because nearly the same thing happens to me and my landlord sometimes. It's not only that he comes once a month to take the rent, but he always ring the bell when he is having some work around the building or here at the building. It's so so annoying and specially for those who we try to avoid and they are coming like it's all good and you are best friends ever who appreciate every minute together. I don't know how good I will be in giving advices, having in mind that sometimes I am at the same situation, but why don't you keep her on the door telling her that you have things to do at home and you are having zero time at that day to chit chat with her. Or just when you hear the bell show your face on the door again and tell her you are leaving for a super important thing you have to do alone (to avoid offers from her to come with you for a company).

In your kindest voice , tell her to f@ck off! In other words tell her to leave you alone and Never , Ever come to your house! Sometimes you Have to be direct. I hope it works out . Let me know.

Could she possibly have come to apologize? If she didn't and if this woman is stalking or harassing you and coming uninvited onto your property, you should threaten to call the police and then do it if she won't back off.

She obviously doesn't get it. Maybe she is so demented that she thinks you will put up with anything. Maybe she isn't one to avoid a situation. Did you tell her you wanted nothing more to do with her. Or, did you leave it up in the air so she doesn't know for sure even yet? If you feel this way tell her!

I have been to this kind of situation recently. A friend of mine kept threatening me on the phone and each time he comes to my house to argue with me. I did ignore that person but he is continuing to pester me. So now on I keep all the doors of my house closed with key. If he knocks at my door I do not respond. Several times he came and knocked my door but I stayed hidden. He is tired now and has stopped coming at my place. And of course I have changed my mobile number.

Ignore her totally. Even if she comes to your house. Just ignore her completely to the point where she knows that you're ignoring her. Even if she knows that you're home, just ignore. She will get the msg that you want nth to do with her sooner or later.

This is a bad situation for you. But one thing that will help you is NOT to get sucked into a discussion with her. People like this usually put you on the defensive and suck you into defending yourself or giving them excuses for whatever. But it doesn't matter what you are saying because they've gotten what they want -- you RESPONDING to them. Refuse to say anything except that she is unwelcome in your life. And, as suggested by others, a restraining order is a good thing. If it makes you feel any better -- most people don't like confrontation. It's a difficult thing for a lot of people. Hope this helps.

Wow what you need to do is just be blunt and tell her even though it is hard to do with a person like that. If she continues to show up on your doorstep tell her you will call the police to remove her from your property and if it still continues then you could probably get a restraining order since you will have past history with getting the police involved!

That was really rude indeed,but you should try to forgive people,even knowing the did bad things to you youll feel better if you just forget what happened,forgive him and move on with you life.Thats a really really deep opinion.

I would have paid attention to the warning signals you were giving...and no I would have never showed up at your house.....I don't know what I would do....

Perhaps this is an example of "getting too close" to someone,who was not family. I'm not in favor of close friendship, and the problems of such relationships are often discussed here. Friends are great when kept at a distance, but intimate friends are trouble waiting to happen. In this case the rude woman apparently felt she was on intimate terms, which is what often happens when two unrelated persons become 'too close!'

will it look lie you got someone after ur man and for her to come to ur home that is nt good i would call the cops and tell them that this woman is at my door and i dnt knw her and she want my hubby and then i would go to him and ask him do he knw anything about her becouse she wouldn't be coming in last she is crazy and u say she was a friend for one you let her in and gave here stuff that is a nono you dnt do that you can be friend but dnt share everthing now she is after ur man and she putting you down will i would like what i have startded and close that part dnt never let some play u becouse if you start now it will never end and if you gave her money or what ever you dnt have to be rule let her knw where you stand at

I have no idea what the entire situation is. But I will say some people just don't get the hint . . . ignoring this person may not be enough. I hate confrontations too, but sometimes you have to tell a person to their face exactly what you want or don't want or otherwise they don't get the message. And if it's too hard to tell them verbally, leave a message or text them . . . or send an old fashion note to them to BUH-BYE!

Probably she need something from you. People who come to you out of nowhere usually want something from you. I experienced the same thing. I used to be friend with this guy in college, but after graduation he join some weird cult that scare me, so i no longer contact him. Suddenly he visit my house. First few visit he said that he just want to hang out with old friend, but i got a strange vibe from him. After several visit then he start to talk about his new community and want me to join him. Because i feel something isn't right, i just reject the offer nicely. But he didn't give up that easily, he keep on coming to my house every now and then. I never open my house for him again, when he rang the bell i just leave it until he left.

Hi friend, may be she is interested in your friendship, i wonder how a person have the ability to go the house of an unwilling host? she is very much different in this sort. It is really hard to deal with this kind of persons