Reason for Divorce cases

Love marriages are frequent to get divorced as they are derived not out of love but out of desire for lust. People who go for love marriages are more frequent to get divorced. They feel they are happy after few talks. But when they start to live with each other they start to blame because they could not found out some thing when they used to sit out at park, or cinema theater or some other public places. Anger is another reason of many divorces. Job stress, man desire to make more money. Women desire to have more living life. All this causes divorces. Have you seen The Pursuit of Happyness. In that movie the man had to divorce the women because he could not afford the type of living that woman desired. It is the woman who desired for divorce. Well it is based on true story, So it cannot be assumed as a fiction. They should realize that talking with each other and living with each other are totally different thing. They must make it clear what is their goal. What they desire. Do they have same feeling for life. Well do they can survive together.

I think that a lot of times people get married with unrealistic expectations. Romance fades, the kids need new shoes, the guy doesn't shave over the weekend, the woman wears sloppy sweaters... and people expect the new love experience to last forever. True love grows through ups and downs. Things are not always easy and they're certainly not always romantic. Marriage takes commitment, something that isn't common any more. Also, I don't think that everyone takes marriage seriously. It's done with the idea that if it doesn't work out, there's always divorce, not with the idea that it's "for better or worse."

Based on my experience(not because i've been divorced but i never been married before) based on our client they normally file for divorced due to misunderstanding, money matter or third party and if theres more then i have no idea. We really cant stop since we cant control nor hold some one else heart nor mind. For me its alright its better than be an enemy and always have fight and war which is more complicated as the kids might going to see it, besides kids now a days are already smart to understand the situation its just a matter of explanation. If ever i rather want to see my parents separated yet they are friends and happy once were together for an occasions than see them fighting everyday. As long as both can still find time to their kids.

I think that people change during the time and partners need to pay attention about what is going on in the life of the other one. Some married people grow up separated, which means each of them grow for himself not caring what is going on in the life of the other one. The other side always pretend to be listening, to be informed, but really during all of the time the connection cuts somewhere in the middle and few years after that people wonder what happened.

Well, I think for me, marriage is about working things out for the couple. Staying together through thick and thin. When you're already married, of course because people aren't perfect, there might be cases of temptations and other things. I think, problems are are part of marriage both should be able to fix it and build trust with each other. When the other person is in her/his weakest, the other one should be their strength. I can name two reasons for divorces. 1.The couple don't understand the real meaning of marriage and maturity. Because they have this mentality that divorce is very available when things get rough, they jump into it without thinking that there could still be a solution. 2.One or both of the couple are selfish. In our humanly world, we tend to always hear and just listen with our feelings without considering the feelings of others. We make choices just for our best without thinking of the other and the "big picture", that the real meaning of marriage is sacrifice and giving. :)