missing someone

Depends on what relations we had before. I have an old memory of someone who I lost without any reason (that is only my opinion), he probably had reasons to turn me his back. He is having his own forum, where he post music links, I check the forum every few days to know how is he. He is also sharing stories and so on. I also have one other friend, who was very close to me. But she had problems in her marriage and was complaining all the time. We were talking every day online, because we live in different cities. She was crying for the story of her life - her bad marriage, I was sharing our problems here from my point of view. At one moment this friend stopped contacting me. Probably because I promised her to call and see her while I visit mom, but it's always so bothering how I have only few days and many people to see. My family is always first, then the good friends I had there before or still have. Last times it really was busy. So she stopped writing me so much online, stopped complaining and repaired a relationship she had with another girl as best friends or something like that. I actually don't feel so sorry and don't miss her that much. I felt like I was and still am unable to help her problems, also she is unable to help mine. And while problems has been the one thing keeping us sharing, our friendship lost when I was replaced. Well my life goes on. I don't feel sorry about old stuff.

Why? You can call him/her. There are so many things you can do if you really miss someone. Unless you don't want to make the first move.

mylz this type of problem arises among youngsters. they move closely. suddenly some suspicion arises and they go away. it is not uncommon. best thing is to accept his/her going away from you and not worry about it. you will get another good friend.

You will just get used to his absence. As simple as that. But whenever you miss him so bad, just allow yourself to think about him and the memories you had with him and eventually you will just get tired. ;-)

That situation really happens to me a few months ago.It was not easy for me.It happened so abruptly but i need to survive.Instead of crying and keep on reminiscing our old memories,what I did is i try to shift my focus and concentration into something different.I tried to do something which i already use to do with him.Sometimes though it is really difficult to let go we need to always open to any situation for there is no permanent in this world.

Well, for me it depends on the kind and level of relationship we have before he became MIA. If we had some sort of connection that I will be missing him that way, I'm sure that I would have his contact details. I can call him, email him, IM him, or when it's really inevitable maybe I can visit his place. Just so I can have peace of mind that he's doing fine. I am not shy to "make the first move", it's not as if I'll be running after him. It's okay to miss people that are close and important to us, and it's also okay if we do something to find out for ourselves how they've been doing. I will not wait long.

when i have a person that i really missing him/her,i will just look in his/her picture or if can not still use to lessen that missing i will call to hear his/her voice,like what i did now,i miss my sister and we are in a long distance place so we used to talk through phone.