Feels so sad and I don't know why

hi enelym, I've been through with this kind of feelings I even can't explain what the hell is happening to me this past few months I wanted to be alone I don't want to see anyone as much as possible I tried to be invisible to my friends. But I am just being unfair to them and to myself maybe at my age and not in a relationship right now it's natural that I will feel this way. You just need something new in you life enjoy have fun and maybe a little do of flirting happy mylotting

hello en I can totally relate with this one. I know how you feels , the emptiness, the doubts and fear. It's been a long time since I fear the feeling of falling in love. Honestly I avoided the feeling. But comes a time that out of the blue I found myself falling in love with someone unexpectedly. Then I realize that love is not that scary- I mean, to trust someone again is not scary. Maybe the right time will come for you...just wait for the right guy to make you feel comfortable.

Hi EN... I can imagine how you feel. I've been through this. I fear too, at times, of falling in Love again and getting deeply hurt. The next time I feel this way, I'm gonna feel it totally and completely. Will try and find why I feel that way... Is the consequences going to be good or bad? I think, you should try to find it too... Good Luck! Take care...

Hi Enelym. Same here. There were times that i felt like a ripened mango waiting to drop from the tree! That was then... but lately not really... It could be because i have diverted me energies in my online business. If someone comes, then ill give them a chance. Dont worry.. it happens. Or... it could be the weather.. the weather, especially the cold wet ones is capable of making us gloomy.

I am glad you start this discussion. It seems that we are in the same boat. It's not like I don't want to move on but the surrounding make me feel that I am safe now. I don't have to think about it otherwise I will get hurt. Is it show that I am just keep denying myself?? Maybe.. But its true I can't really open up my heart to anyone. Till when? I don't know~(^^)

What a crazy life it is. When we are single we long to have a relationship and when we are in one the thoughts can be that we want out of it. Maybe, you need a little more time that’s all. We can be happy with our life being single but there is nothing wrong with changing it if someone special comes along. It does take time to get over the past and something’s will always remain a part of us but in time that is all they really are.

Now, I also feel a bit sad for you, and, I do not think that I have anything to say to make you feel better, you have just split out a relationship that, as I sense it, means a lot more for you than for him. It is natural to feel sorrow for a while, feelings last a bit to disappear, specially when they were true, and I know, this is no help for you, but, as I see it is the truth. But, we have to avoid sorrow from being our constant character, and focus on all the blessings you have, as all those you mentioned in your discussion that maked you happy once, and will do it again, if you let them to. You are a beautiful woman, any man should be proud to have in his life, I say this as a friend, even if we do not know each other well, I can see on your posts, that you are smart, keen and funny, do not close the doors to love, is OK, learn from past experiences, but don´t allow fear to take control, always have hope in a better tomorrow. The world is full of creeps, and someone will hurt you again, I don´t pretend to discourage you, but I want to be honest, you know I am right, but in the end, you will find the love you deserve, just keep your sight on the horizon, not on the grownd. I am afraid that I extended this too much, only to finish, this sorrow of yours, may be the rooth of your loosing weight problem, you mentined in a deleted discussion you post, but, if it continues, maybe is better if you see a doctor. Blessings, and love in your life.

Yes I have. I hope you feel better soon. If this goes longer than six weeks, you might want to discuss it with your doctor. Longtime sadness is a symptom of depression. Depression can be treated with medication.

Yes I have felt like this over the years. Finding a person to feel the void in your life is probaly the worst thing you can do right now. Been there done that! Never again! I have mention this before I am happy without a man and have no intentions of ever finding one again! Men are not for me! They mess my life up and I become a person I don't like being! If you can't be true to yourself,you can't be to another.

You know it's true-- Ev`rything I do ... Whoa-oo-whoa-oo-oh-oh ... I do it for you. That's the solution ... it's why married people feel so "successful," even though they're mind-numbingly average---because people depend on them to do what they do (Granted; 'what they do' is usually something they get paid for, which is why almost nobody counts on me to do what I do ) I think that's the reason I decided to stay alive and to better myself: because someone is going to depend on me doing what I do.

Maybe you can go to travel to some places you've never been,so that you can relax and cure your heart.I always believe time is the best doctor which can cure everything.While you enjoy the scenery,time will open your heart and make you have other views to the world and everything.