Are you particular about any thing?
@yugasini (12893)
Secunderabad, India
July 23, 2012 9:48am CST
hi mylot friends,
I have seen several persons, even though they are not rich and not affordable to purchase costly things, still they wish to buy costly things, means costly dresses,costly shoes,they use only costly cosmetics like creams,soaps,perfumes, they does not walk on the road, they travel on auto or on bike,even though they are common middle class people,they are pretending that they are rich, but even though i can purchase expensive dresses,till now i have not purchased any dress till now,except T shirt that too below 5 dollars, i use causal dresses,below two dollars chap pals,walk to minimum distances up to 2 km is there is no luggage with me(things or person), i can eat 5 star hotel food and road side canteen food,several times i complete my dinner/lunch with only single item, till now i am using ordinary soap, and i am not sticking to one brand of soap, i use only cheap soap,now a days cheap soap also not less than 0.40 cents,that is me what about you?
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7 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
23 Jul 12
ajinleo
that is really so good of you. you confine your needs within the capacity of your father. i am happy. a contented mind is stable and will be able to do new things also. 
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
23 Jul 12
hi ajinlo,
thanks for the response, you are still very very young and it is best that what is your father is afford you are accepting,so you are good boy, my brothers's son is also 18 years recently he is joining in Engineering, he brought a T shirt Mrp 2000.00, is it necessary to purchase that costly T shirt by my brother's son,even though they are rich and affordable, the boy's mother shouting on boy about that T shirt, if we are earning ten rupees it is better to spend only eight rupees not twelve rupees,have a nice day
@dreamhome (558)
• India
24 Jul 12
Spending Rs.2000 for a single t-shirt is something unncecessary. But still, if we comment on them, we would get a response as it is their own money and they know how to spend it. Also it is in each person's hand on learning the value of money and how to use it efficiently. It is not easy to earn a single ruppee, but it is more easy to spend thousands of Ruppees in an hour.
@aejey322 (1004)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
There are people I know who are brand conscious. They do not buy things without brand name. Even though it looked very ordinary as long it's branded, they buy these things. I do not understand also why... Though we know for a fact that people appreciates other people who wears these things. But it doesn't mean that people will not respect you if you don't... It still depends on your attitude and character.
I also buy cheaper things because for me it's practical. I can buy 2 or even 3 for the price of 1 expensive branded clothes. It just depends on how you wear it and how you bring yourself...
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Jul 12
hi aejey,
thanks for the response, just like me you are also practical people, and does know the value of money, so i will minimize my expenditure any where, if we spend lavishly , no body will give money to us, i know how it is difficulty to earn money, but spending money is very easy, that is the life, have a nice day
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Jul 12
hi aejey,
thanks for the response, yes i am struggling for earning money, even though my son will feed me,but i do not wish to depend on them, i wish to earn my own money, till now i am earning only 10 dollars, sure win in mylot , and other sites, they may give any time, now my target is 400 to 500 dollars per month,but we have also to invest some money,but i do not know when i reach my target,have a nice day
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Oct 12
hi,
actually i am thankful because i am such a frugal type of person that is why i am not really interested to buy those expensive clothes and gadgets because i loved to save my money that i have earn,sometimes i buy gadget but only once a year coz i preserved money.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
23 Jul 12
yes. this sort of maturity has come to us because of our age. we know nothing is indispensable and we have to buy only essential things. I am also more like you. I avoid luxuries. I avoid costly things. I do not go for walking regularly as you do. it depends on value system told to us by our parents.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
23 Jul 12
hi ravisivan,
thanks for the response,not from i am the elder son in my family , all my brothers purcahse costly things,but i am purchasing ordinary things only, all my brothers travelled to so many places,but my travel is only to some places,for your kind information now a days i am not interested to spend even ten rupees for me for unnecessary things,have a nice day
@samson1 (738)
• Jamaica
23 Jul 12
Hello Yugasini, how are you? Based on your statements, I think that you are a frugal person. Good for you. As a result, you areable to enhance your choices toady. Well, I am of a similar personality as you, but, I may be as disciplined as you are. Why?
I have been encouraged to splurge every once in a while by my partner, and occassionally by my little one. Perhaps, since thay are in my life, (and have some influence on me) I have given them the some financial 'lattitude' to operate around me; as I allow them to use my cards to shop., and have some fun.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Jul 12
hi samson,
i thinking that you are the same samson, long back you are in my discussions i am ok,how about you, we have to teach our children the value of the money and how money should be earned and spend,but only some people just like you and me will do like that, now my children does have their own cards, one month back my boy arranged an add on card to me,till now i have not yet used it,have a nice day
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
23 Jul 12
Because the rich always underestimates the poor. Its called the clash between classes.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Jul 12
hi kashidanga,
thanks for the response, i am talking about the lavishness ,children does not know the value of money, we have to learn and teach them about the money,i think in child hood children think like this only, i too was experienced this,but my father does not allow me to buy costly things, now i cannot control my boys, they know very well about the value of money,but still some wastings by them,i does not like it,have a nice day
@aryaraja (37)
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25 Jul 12
Hello Yugasini,
It is very nice discussion in this site. I am also not a particular of any thing. I will adjust with any thing i.e., any food any where to live and any where to sleep. I will lead a very simple life with adjustment. I am also sailing in the same boat. Now you are in a position that your sons are feeding you, but my son it still studying. I have to wait three more years for my family. Then only I will lead a good life.
