Recovering from a break up!

@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
July 23, 2012 5:11pm CST
Not all relationship last long and end up happily.Some break up and end up sadly.Some don't even survive in this hardship and even make some difficult situations in their life.In order to overcome to this dilemma we need to be stronger.Here are some basic tips to overcome for breaking up a relationship: 1.Try to shift your focus and concentration in life.Avoid the things you use to do together. 2.Eliminate all the material things you keep that only reminds you of him.For instance, the first birthday card he gave you. 3.Avoid visiting the places you keep in going together like your dating place. 4.Lastly is love first your self before opening another relationship. Well it's easy to be said but really difficult to do.At this point in time, I'm syill struggling to achieve those things mention above to have peace within my heart.How about you?What are the things that you can add to make me recover easily from this devastation happen in my life.
2 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
24 Jul 12
You can also pray, or cry your sorrow to the Lord. Ask His help to take away the pain. They say that God is closer to those of broken hearts and spirits. Also, this is the perfect time to reinvent yourself physically. Well, as per my experience for example, my ex doesn't like to change my hair and cut it shorter. When we broke up, I found out that shorter and curly hair fits me very well. :)
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
24 Jul 12
well that's meditation....it can also be of help...finding one's self again....
@moshfeq (19)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 12
Recovering from a recent break up is often quite difficult. However, one should know that one can and have to move on. But as healing takes time, one has to be patient with oneself.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
23 Jul 12
correct, all we need is time to heal a broken heart