I think he's breaking up with me..

Very nicely said! I think this should be the best answer in this thread. I agree that when we love one we should not limit one's freedom to decide on your own and vice versa. I think that is a very good point in maintaining a good partnership.

Thanks, that's what my friends said too! In general, we have good communication and even if we fight sometimes we discuss it later that we've calmed down and we find the solution. I didn't want to stay at home, I wanted to go for a trip with my friends that was my choice. If he was here we could make other plans but since he was away, I would have stayed alone all weekend at home. Last month he went to one of his coworker's house on the beach alone & I was fine with it. I don't really know what bothered him so much since he isn't talking to me any more.

Communication after an argument is great, but communication prior to an argument might stop an argument from happening. No relationship will ever be 100% perfect, and there will always be some sort of disagreement. Learning how to discuss things beforehand can limit the amount of hurt feelings. In your case, he's giving you the "silent treatment". Silent treatment is the one thing I have always disagreed with, because all it does is hurt emotions and feelings. It leaves the other person in a relationship confused and often makes them think the relationship is over when it really isn't. He might be upset or angry about you going on your trip, and that's okay, everyone has a right to be angry about things. The thing that he doesn't have a right to do is disrespect and mistreat you because he is angry, and in this case, his silent treatment is a form of disrespect and unwillingness to communicate with you. This silent treatment he is giving you is hurting your feelings and it causes you to constantly wonder what is going on without any answers. The next time you talk to him, I would suggest you both sit down and discuss a time frame so that when future arguments and disagreements occur, you two can get together and communicate or talk it out. You and him need to come up with a maximum time, say 24 hours or 72 hours for example (1 to 3 days), then you both need to discuss things. He shouldn't be able to just push you aside for several days and never talk to you, to me that's him taking advantage of you, and you're sitting around waiting for someone to come around. I know this response has been a little bit more opinionated than my previous response, I hope you still find it useful in determining your next step in your relationship. I wish you the best and I hope everything works out. Just remember to follow your heart.

Yes, you need to have a closure for you to decide whether you'll continue or end your bond with him. Does letting him go and end the relationship are one of your options?

Right now, I am confused and I need him to be clear with me, so I 'll be able to decide what to do. I should now if I am going to wait for him because he needs time, to stay in the relationship or move on. I deserve that explanation and I'm afraid that he won't give it to me!

I feel mad to him for ignoring you. It seems unfair, rude and immature for him not to talk to you and clarify everything. Atleast, he need to speak if he is still willing to continue your relationship or not.

Well, i totally understand your feeling..but somehow not all people have the same thinking like you. My ex and i used to be in the same situation..and i just leave it there when i had no mood to talk or point out the problem..just need time to be calm down and thinking. Many things we can't speak it out clearly..it exists in the relationship. However, take it easy, i do hope you guys will be happy together soon.

Thanks! I am not against giving time to my boyfriend, and I don't want to pressure him but I think at this point it would be best to discuss it with me. Since it's both of us in this relationship and he's not alone, he should make it clear and tell me what he wants. I don't find it normal to stop answering calls from your relationship without saying that you need some time for yourself.

I know that he is angry and I understant it. He should have calmed down by now but I still have no communication with him. I don't know how much patience I can have to wait for him to return my calls or keep calling him. I always believed in actions, if he wants something he should find a way to have it. I want to be with him and I am trying to reach him but he doesn't do anything. On the other hand, if he wants to break up with me, he should at least say it.

Thanks for your response! My friends also says that I should keep calling him and try to reach him! He has all the time he wants since we don't live at the same city yet. He was going to visit me for my birthday next week, and this is the time that I asked him to go somewhere together. We haven't been on vacations since our 1st summer together, last year I was abroad and this year it was a good chance for us to be together without caring about anything.

good to hear that, dont worry everything will be okay. :)

let me correct the first sentence.. i mean, He being silent DOESN'T mean he wants to break up with you..

So, you mean that he needs time? I know that he isn't so busy right now and if he wants he can find time to call or answer my calls! I am also confused because I don't know what to do. I don't want to give up, after all this time I deserve to get an explanation at least. But I can't do much if I can't reach him and I don't want to keep on calling every day..

No he hasn't moved yet, he's getting the transfer from his job on September. We were talking on the phone when all that happened and now I can't reach him, so I can't really talk to him. He was planning to visit me for my birthday next week, but I am not sure that he'll come now..

Thank you for the great advice! Some men are very immature and when the difficult moment comes they don't have the courage to say it's over. I've seen some signs of jealousy during our relationship, they started when I went to study abroad for 1 year and because I was working all day and all night with the uni projects, I was going out every Saturday with my friends (most of them were guys due to the subject of my course). But when I finished and came back he forgot everything and came back to normal. In my weekend vacations we were all girls and my friend's boyfriend who is his best friend. The couple was there for the week and I went to visit with 2 more girls. So, I guess that he should trust me more since he can learn everything from his friend! I really want to had my freedom because I am very independent, but I do love him and I would like to have a talk with him and see what has bothered him so much that he stopped answering my calls! Unfortunately he doesn't login to his email or check his skype, he only had them to communicate with me.