What will you do to a person who hurts you?
By uolyram
@uolyram (266)
Philippines
July 25, 2012 12:17am CST
I have lots of friends, they come and go. Friends on facebook, mylot, pen friends and a lot more, and they have different ways of treating a person. Once I was hurt by one of my friends because he left me and went to another place without saying goodbye. I just hope that one day he will be back and we can see each other again. When he left I was hurt trully because I cried for it. Now I realize he is not worth for crying because he is not the only friend I have and I can still find friends better than him. How about you?
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10 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
I agree. We have to move ahead when hurt comes in our way. People come and go as you say because people change. And change is a natural thing. But the challenge is we need to adapt and cope up with that change in order for us not to be hurt. It is a must for us to appreciate the people around us instead of counting who left us. I hope you remain to think positive 
@uolyram (266)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
That is true, we have to think positive because people have different natures in life. We have to move on even if we felt hurt by our friends because it is in them that we can be renewed on what we have done. Maybe we also do not know that we have done something wrong to them. We should know that friends come and go and we have to prepare for it. Thank you.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
That`s the way it is. Your welcome and i hope you`re doing fine. People who walk away from you are the people who does not deserve the most of your tears. True friends will still stick with you in any situation might bring. Moving on can help us to become new person like so much stronger compare to our previous attitude
@Gautam1002 (730)
• India
25 Jul 12
Yes I feel you are right in your attitude. You cared enough for him and felt for him. But you should not give so much time and thoughts to someone who actually does not deserve it. Considering how your friend treated you, he does not have respect for your feelings. You are right in saying that you have lots of friend who care for your feelings for them.
@Gautam1002 (730)
• India
25 Jul 12
We all learn from our mistakes. We all do. Some one who disrespects ones feeling never realize how hurt we are until unless he is treated the same way. For a relationship to continue well you need contributions equally from both sides. And if this is not the case and it eventually gets over, it is their loss not yours.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
25 Jul 12
The same thing is happen with me but not from social networking site but from real life one my friend hurts me after completing her purpose she said dont call me. I asked the reason she not tell me and said our friendship is only for study purpose she was staying full 15 days in my house and I teach her so she got more marks. I cried but she not feel anything. My other friends told me dont think about her, think she was selfish. I am not selfish.
@uolyram (266)
• Philippines
5 Aug 12
You should not be bothered for your friend who just needs your help. She did not deserved your friendship because she is selfish. Friendship should be give and take relationship. Her behavior is not worth for you to hurt yourself. Forget her and you can find real friends coming in your life. Move on and try to be careful the next time in dealing with friends.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
25 Jul 12
I also got hurt by friends, too many to count. I just let myself to feel the sadness and pain for awhile. Then I just forget about it and just have fun with my other friends. I wouldn't try to hurt her back or anything, because I would be no different from her if I did. Its enough that she lost a good friend in me.
@debbygirl (213)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
i got hurt more when words and action are done by them intentionally... you know friends must be someone who loves u and respects you.So when they did things that hurts me it made me think again who are my real friends..
@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
I got betrayed by some of my friends and when they said they were sorry, I forgave them. But the closeness is not the same. I forgave them but did not forget the things that they did. It's a good thing I found the true ones and they are the ones I have been hanging around and gave my trust. Friends come and go but true ones stays. My friend who migrated from another country does not fail to contact me and even if she's far, she will find a way to make me feel that she's just around if I need a shoulder.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
hi,
there were many people who hurt me in my past,more of them hurt my feelings but the only thing i did is forget them and move on,of course i forgave them on what they did to me,i don't care now about my past and i am happy now on what life i have now as a single.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 12
People can sometimes hurt others both intentionally and unintentionally. If a person somehow hurt me without having the intention to do so, I would forgive that person. If someone hurt me intentionally, I would remember It for the rest of my life and try my best to avoid seeing that person in the future unless the person sincerely regret what has been done and willing to change.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
25 Jul 12
I also have several friends who come and go. One thing I would not do is to get too close or to someone else because I know that it would hurt me that much in the event that we will say goodbye. Like now, I am in a temporary place and I know a few months to go and we will leave the place. It will be very hard for me and to my friends to think about separating ways. So better not to get in a deep relationship.
@Mark72125 (135)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Aug 12
In general,I like to let people go.Many people have hurted me, I just try to move forward with my life.But sometimes,I try to ask them why they would do something like that with me.But I usually just forgive and forget in the end.
