There comes a point where you know you have to move ahead ..

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As the subject says, there comes a point in your life where you know you have to move ahead of the so called 'friendship'.. You actually realize this in the closest of friendships, that whatever you were thinking and being too concerned about someone is something which is not going to matter to them. Then to what point should one keep trying, keep sacrificing the self-respect. you cannot keep doing that forever. neither can you forcibly tell someone to value you. It has to come from within.. and if it does not, all the efforts, love, care you put in the relation is worthless. Not worthless, rather i would say you are insulting the relation with putting so much and getting all bitter words or no respect in return. Yes someone cannot think of life without their best friend but somewhere you have to learn as all this is not worth if the reln is not valued from the other side. Its okay to not respect people i feel but the relation should get the deserved respect and value to survive in it. So i feel when all such things start to happen you realize that this is the point where you should move ahead, Leave expectations , stay happy, stop being negative and lead a better life.