Friends went out for a hang out, and did not even ask me once..

India
July 25, 2012 12:04pm CST
I am a part of a group of friends.. They have been planning for some hangout at some place since a week.. They did not include me in the planning.. I was like its ok.. But then they finally went without even asking me once.. It really hurt me.. What should i do..?? :(
3 responses
kalav56
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
18 Aug 12
Hullo Utkarsh! It means you are still not really used to them and have not become part of their gang. DO not worry but just wait patiently ; soon they will include you in their gang. I assume you have become part of this group only from this June or so.
uautkarsh
@uautkarsh (414)
• India
18 Aug 12
Yes. You are right.. I joined them kinda in June.. And now am kind of closer to the gang.. I feel much better now.. :) I guess that it takes time to get close.. :)
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Jul 12
Sorry to hear about this. Sometimes friends assume that you don't want to go with them. Have you ever tried asking them if you can go with them? Maybe they thought you are busy with other things that is why they did not bother you anymore. Ask them to go out with you next time :)
uautkarsh
@uautkarsh (414)
• India
26 Jul 12
They can't assume things like that.. We always hangout.. Why should i ask them for if i can come with them.. This should not be an option for anyone of us.. They know my complete schedule.. I hope that they do not do this the next time.. :)
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Aug 12
I am so sorry about that. How long have you been friends with them? Coz if they are your friends for years, they wouldn't have excluded you with the planning. Not unless you have not been joining them in several occasions, maybe they thought you would just decline.