Shouldn't I give up my dream?
By happyday1001
@happyday1001 (20)
China
July 25, 2012 1:12pm CST
I have my dream.It's not easy to say it.I have worked hard for it for many years,but it is still a dream.How can I do? The future like the twinkling stars,I can't see ,I want to touch,but I can't.Maybe I should try to put it down,I'm too tired,but this dream is still in my heart,sometimes I still think of it.Shouldn't I give it up?Let God decide it.
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10 responses
@happyday1001 (20)
• China
26 Jul 12
I want to go to University ,I have finished bachelor's degree courses through self-study,but I still want it,I hope I can read a graduate school.But I know it's not a easy thing,I must study more for it,it's a long way.I don't know.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
25 Jul 12
Often we have to modify our dreams and certianly we need to look outside the box.
If I wanted to be Queen, that would be a dream and an impossible one, but if I widened the defination I could be Queen of the quilt show, or the cooking contest or just Queen bee of my family. I'd still be Queen, the defination would just be different. As Queen, I would be in charge, the best, the most important etc. But what or who I ruled would just have changed. Laugh and enjoy life. you can make your dreams come true in their own fashion. Blessings.
@happyday1001 (20)
• China
26 Jul 12
I think what you said is reasonable,I should not only live in my litter world,maybe I need to change my mood,beacause I can't change the environment.Happiness is the most important.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
27 Jul 12
We are all entitled to our dreams; some of them may be feasible and may come true while others may just be some unrealized dreams too. As long as we do not allow disappointments with our unreal dreams to mar our legitimate achievements and happiness there is nothing wrong in dreaming. We must work very hard and in a focused manner if we have some dreams and after working is content with whatever God has ordained for us. Without dreaming and without working towards its ultimate fulfillment nothing can be achieved.
@hekunharris (50)
• Chengdu, China
26 Jul 12
Dear happyday1001:
everybady have the dream, the distinction is whether the dream is reachable or not.
The reachable dream is the goal and the motivation to make people live actively.
The unreachable dream is the faith to encourage people live actively.
U know what? My website named Daydreamworks.com.cn.
Maybe, defective life is a real life. Perfect life only exsit in movies and stories.
good luck.
@weixiao2012 (54)
•
26 Jul 12
Dream is a beauriful and exciting thing. we desire to realize it. Here i want to say when we are on the road to our dream we should analyze the road we choose is right or not. Do not choose the road which is far away from our dream.
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
27 Jul 12
don't give up!!! take into consideration all of what people said here and do not give up! keep at it, believe me, keep at it. it's a goal and that goal get's you out and doing things...who knows what you will find tomorrow! Just keep your eyes on the prize and just keep going in life. Just stay away from toxic busybodies. I've had more than my share of toxic busy bodies, they always want to interrupt your dream by giving you things you do not want or care about. I cannot stand them. A good quote from actor Keanu Reeves, which works for me is this (and I am paraphrasing here) "when I don't feel free, I go against it." it is a longer quote, but the point here is to go against whatever you feel now that is toxic. if you feel to let go of your dreams, then Go Against It! Hold onto your dreams tighter. Toxic people in my life do not care about what I want. For example, I have a life that I want, and it does not include owning a car, a toxic person would ignore everything you desire, and focus on making you get a car. What I'm trying to say, is make sure that your feeling of giving up on your dream is not because there is someone who is toxic in your life, filling your head with useless ideas. Toxic people have no life, and must feast on the lives of others to feel worthy. Just making sure your thoughts on ending your dream are not because of some jerk or jerkette filling your head with useless talk and ideas.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
25 Jul 12
Don't give it up until or unless you can see it as something that is impossible for you to attain. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, hang on to that and keep working toward it. IF someday you should decide that it really is an impossible dream, you will know with certainty that other things in your life can take the place of it. Without that, you've lost all hope and without hope of some kind, life is discouraging.
@centuryblack (76)
• India
25 Jul 12
Dear happyday1001,
I love dreaming like you. My suggestion would be never stop dreaming because it is for what you keep struggling and working hard. Once you stop dreaming you will realize that your productivity has declined. It is the dream that keeps person moving on. See everyone is not same. keep working and leave rest in god's hand and keep in mind one thing that - Whatever happens, happens for a reason and for good sake.
Keep smiling.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
25 Jul 12
Keep dreaming, dreaming is good. And don't feel sad if it's not happening. If you give up then surely it will not come true but if you believe in with your heart and have faith in your dream than surely it will come true. No matter how big your dream is. Just keep working towards it and don't give up.