will you still accept him/her?
By Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
Philippines
July 26, 2012 2:07am CST
hey guyz,
question, what if the one you love left you or broke up with you because he/she wants to do something in her life without you in it because maybe he/she thinks that you maybe the reason of his/her downfall.,because of that it caused you so much depression.Now after a long,long years you have your own life and your happy with your present lovedone,he/she just came up to you and tells you that he/she still loves you and he/she'll die without you but you know in your heart that you still love him/her,what will you do?
share you thoughts!!
5 responses
@Hazelme (647)
• United States
26 Jul 12
If you were born without him, you could live without him. I won't accept him, why? first of all because he/she has no right to say that. If you're the reason for his/her downfall then why does he wants you back? Also if he left for long years and then came back and says "he'll die without you" that's not true! Or else how did he survived all this long years far away from you.
I honestly think nobody should accept a person like that no matter how much he/she loves him. First of all because you don't know for sure what he did throughout those years. Second: your life is good already and if you take him back and leaves again you'll be depress again. 3rd: You know you could do better than someone who tells you you're the reason for my downfall.
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
26 Jul 12
I strongly believe in pass the page, and never looks back, specially in the situation you portrait here, when life, after the break up has been rebuilt, turning back to another person, may make us loose all the good stuff we achieve along this period. So, my answer is no, I wouldn´t turn back to the other person, specially, if I already found a new one.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Jul 12
if i loved them dearly i might except them back if they proved in some way they wanted to stay. but if i could possibley live without them i would say, you know, im so sorry but i dont want to hurt again and i think im better off not going there with you. its just to much. i have things i want in life also and obviously we cant agree on the same path. 
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
26 Jul 12
Well this is a very confusing situation for me. I would have to do a reality check in order to accept him/her again as the same thing might also happen in the future if he/she is accepted. But if i am hitched or in a relationship, then it would be better to explain him/her all the matters clearly such that it doesnt create any hindrances in the future.
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
9 Sep 12
We should respect there feelings as everyone has a dream and in order to fulfil it one has to sacrifice something.
One of my friend left there parents for about 4yrs saying that wgen he will achieve something in life he will return.
And so he is working with good indian mnc .
After thathe came back and his parents r proud of him.
