rubbish comment on my facebook wall-embarrasing
By riyauro
@riyauro (6421)
India
July 26, 2012 2:45am CST
Normally i go to facebook to communicate with family and friends and most of the people i know in my list, but there are most people who have been suggested by my husband or his friends and they are mostly Goans. So one day when I was online on facebook, this guy chat box pops up saying hi hello watsoever, I hardly reply to people but that day i said hello since i was in good mood. So this guy goes "you are sexy" and I told him I am married and I don't like to discuss intimacy with any other man. He wrote somethings and I logged out. Today I see something written on my wall by this guy and it was very irritating. I was pissed that i don't know this guy he is writing anything on my wall. There are my family on facebook who will see that and say what I have done wrong that this person is writing such stuff on my wall. I deleted it instantly. What to do with such people. I have all his messages in my inbox and I would love to teach him one lesson of his life. He is out to spoil my name. Should I make a police complaint? he is working in Dubai but is from Goa. Tell me what to do.
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6 responses
@ForSouls1234 (720)
• United States
26 Jul 12
Delete the comment or hide it. Put your arrow mouse over the right hand top corner and you can get rid of it. No cop is going to care about this. Block him and remove him from your friends list. What a jerk he is.
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
26 Jul 12
yeah blocked him now. crazy one. There are all my family on my facebook, what will they think of me. And they are looking for one mistake I do to put me down. I am one whose past is clean. So all eyes are on me now. You won't believe this, me and my husband removed our marital status facebook because he is going into politics and so he doesn't want people to see who his wife is..just for security reasons. And there goes messages in my facebook from my cousins in australia. They saying that me and my husband got separated and this is the latest gossip. I was surprised that people jump to conclusions without knowing the truth.
@ForSouls1234 (720)
• United States
26 Jul 12
I don't think they will think badly of you, I'm sure they have come across their share of nut jobs on the internet. I know how you feel. My husband has to stay anonymous for his job as well.
We have two accounts under fake names so if anyone makes a bad comment about where he works they won't know it's him. Believe it or not, and this is the Gods honest truth, his company actually employs a company to search for it's own companies name on the internet.
The company my husband works for does charity work on the side for people with mental disabilities and many other things like disadvantaged children with Christmas events etc... Well one person who worked for them made a comment on their face book about people with mental disabilities, a bad one, the company found it and they were fired within two days, and rightly so.
Maybe face book isn't worth all this trouble to you? Just saying. Because it's not worth it to me.
@cathy1990 (220)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
woahw, that was scary. there are people in fb are like that so before i accept the friend requests i see to it that i may know him/her.
for my safety also. maybe you can block his account..hehehe
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@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
26 Jul 12
You can opt to block him so that he won't keep bugging you. Or you can report this person to Facebook. Inform them that this person wrote something nasty on your wall.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
26 Jul 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this. This kind of persons are quite common in fb, just block and ignore him. You don't get any benefits by making complaints against him, it will create some unwanted issues to you.
@Raine38 (12390)
• United States
26 Jul 12
You did the right thing by blocking him, and next time, be very careful who to accept in your friends' list. Once you accept them, you're sort of giving them an access to your wall and be free to post anything they want, so make sure they're people you can trust. Or, restrict their access on your profile. Should the guy still persist in bothering you, you can go to his profile and report him. At first I thought that Facebook doesn't really take the "Report This Person" thing at all. But there's an incident when my husband's bestfriend was created a Facebook profile by his ex; our friend is already married and this fake profile is already affecting them. We reported him, like everyday. Until a few weeks after, that profile is no longer accessible and has been removed.
@Arielqiao (78)
• China
29 Jul 12
Creat another account and add this guy to your friend list. Then you do the same as what he did to you, or tell this to your friend and let your families and friends add him to their friend list, and write many bad things on his facebook wall.
