Afraid of committment!!

Let me start by asking you this. What part of commitment are you afraid of? The reason I ask is because if I have a better understanding of your situation, I might be able to help you out a little bit. On a side note, I do know that women more often than men prefer to be in a stable, committed relationship. A lot of women have this dream of their prince charming sweeping them off their feet and treating them to the best life ever. In a woman's eyes, commitment isn't necessarily you having to give up your life for that woman, but she wants a long-lasting promise that you won't give up on the relationship so easy even during the tough times.

there's actually no reason why you should be afraid of being committed. it will not take anything away from you like what you think. there's no giving up of personal space and the like. it's just being faithful to this one girl you love most above all. you see, for us women, we look forward to hearing our guy telling us that there'll be no other party involved, assuring us that we're the only one for them. being committed to her doesn't mean that you will have to go out with her and only her everyday of your life. you'll just go out with her on romantic dates but you may still go out with your friends or colleagues at work. you may attend parties like you always do. you just add her to your life, therefore making it more meaningful. of course, you will stop dating other girls (in case you are doing so now) since this will hurt her. i think you are afraid of being committed because you are thinking that once you get committed to her, you can no longer stop yourself and might end up marrying earlier than you planned to. don't hold yourself back, just let the relationship flow naturally. enjoy your time together and show the real you to her, without the fear of giving too much away. for your info, we women, also love and give as much as we can when we really love a man.

I would just simply explain to her the best that you can exactly what it is that makes you afraid of commitment. You would want to reassure her as well that your fear has nothing to do with her personally ( I'm assuming and hoping that it's not her otherwise obviously you shouldn't be together). It's important to talk these things out, otherwise you could lose her if she feels like she cannot have forever with you.

Before I can answer your questions, you should tell us why are you afraid of the commitment? Commitment to what? being with your partners is already a form of commitment. Going into a relationship is already giving commitment to your partner.

I cant explain how much love to my hubby but not afraid from commitment because if he wants I should commit then I am ready but they trust on me so no need.

for me my thinking of that,when a male nor even female if afraid in commitment meaning they don't like to have some limitation because of your relationship,or maybe because your freedom will be lessen,why a person should be afraid in this commitment if you really love your partner?

All because your love is not big enough...you are not ready to take responsibility for what you will do in commitment

Sweetie plain and simple, its not you its her. Then again, it is you. These complexities or the inferiority complex are all in our heads. I use this "I am afraid of being committed" bluntly, when I like her, but when I dont like her a whole lot. And those that I truly want to be with, I end up asking her or even waiting for her to agree(verbally) that she wants to be in a committed relationship with me. Because I felt that without this verbal conclusion, she will just wake up one day and leave and I can't get mad or say anything because although I have emotionally invested so much, she had never verbally agreed even if her actions reflect as such. I am a guy, I have done things I am not proud of but I am speaking through experience, you can be honest if you don't like her that much.