Are you now so happily married?
By desiree91
@desiree91 (515)
Malaysia
July 27, 2012 12:53am CST
There's a saying by Jane Austen, that happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. And nowadays we see a lot of divorces going on with celebs. I myself came from a broken family. And that leads me to not really believe that marriages do work.
I guess I have to ask from those who do have a happy marriage life. Come on guys, prove to the world that happy marriages do exist.
Tell us your story.
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8 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I can say I am not came from a broken family because my parents are still together but I can say that they love to each other was gone long time ago and they just together because of their children. It so sad but there's nothing to do but to accept it.
I can say that I am happily married for 7 years to someone that I really love and he loves me more than i do. We met at school during my college days and our relationship went into lots of trial, hardship,even physically and emotionally problems but all of those was only a test to strength our relationship. I admit at first we done lots of misunderstanding and fight almost everyday but when we learned to accept our weakness, attitude, character and way of thinking we understand each other and we became bestfriend and love is other more everyday. Also now we made sure to have time each other even were busy in our work and help each other to lessen the stress and tired in our daily life. We made sure to have a happy bonding during weekends and never let each other down. My husband in not only my lover but he also my mentor, bestfriend, brother and good provider to me and he makes me happy everyday. MY married life is perfect but I know that I am happily married and its because of my husband.
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@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
28 Jul 12
It's so sad to hear that they have lost their love for each other. I wish they could have found a way to restore the feelings they once shared.
On the other hand, I'm glad you're happier! Sounds like a good hubby.
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
28 Jul 12
Your parents must love you very much, as they can get along/are still together for their children, I don't think I would do this if it was my case.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I'm happily married :) But then we've been married only for a couple of years, so I guess it's too early to tell haha! But I sure hope and pray to God that we last forever :)
Ours isn't easy, and we're still on the stage that we are adjusting to the fact that we're more than just a couple now. We're also a team, best friends, lovers, biz partners, hub and wifey. And more often than not we have disagreements, then tempers flare up, then we say hurtful words, then kiss and make up. Then the cycle repeats again. At first I thought I can never live like that, but my mom in law said that if there's no argument in a marriage, then someone is not doing his or her job. I used to be so confused with that, but now, I think I'm starting to get the idea.
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@desiree91 (515)
• Malaysia
28 Jul 12
That's great my Mum once said that in marriage friendship very very important. Good for you and your spouse.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Sep 12
Not only married persons but also unmarried persons is not happy in life. Because life if full of tension earning problem, learning problem, eating problem etc. The couples not like join family like MIL and FIL they wants only single family so this is also the reason of divorce.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
16 Aug 12
There are lot of couple having a divorce but i also see lot of elders happy with their married life. I'm only 1 year married and i'm happy with him and i know he is also happy with me. Sometimes we are having argument but we always talk about it before the end of the day. But i'm still hoping that we grow old together like the other elders i see dating with their partners.
@sofiafaith (84)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
as for me, i not happy with my married, bec. me and my husband is sperated now, so i need to have an annulment, so that i will be able to get married again in other person, but there are other person, have a happy married life, bec they understand each other and sometimes they went old with each other
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Jul 12
I believe that a happy marriage is something that people can have, but I also think that in any marriage it is never all sunshine and roses. I believe that all couples go through hard times in their relationships. For my husband and I, we have been married for eight years and we have had our fair share of conflicts, but overall I really think that we are happily married.
When we do have problems in our relationship, I think that it is important to be able to talk to each other. If we were not able to talk to each other, then I don't think that a relationship would be something that would last.