I Have Asthma But I Love My Cat
By phoenix35
@phoenix35 (384)
Philippines
July 27, 2012 1:49am CST
It is always a love-hate relationship between my cat Logan and me. But now, I am missing him terribly already. I didn't sell him or put him for adoption because I can't. As much as I try to think that we are better off apart, I just couldn't take it. This morning, Logan was taken by a friend for a 'cat-thing' arrangement. Logan is going to spend a week or two with a female cat to mate.
I feel terrible. My cat is already grown up and he has no love life. Because of my asthma, Logan is always inside a cage. He got big and fat because he has no exercise. He stays inside his cage, sleeping and eating all the time. I can keep him in the shop but because he lacks attention of hugs and play time, he seems to be attacking my kids. It's not really a form of attack. He was simply nipping and clawing playfully. Never the less my kids are all scared of him.
I fell in love with Logan when he was just a kitten. I already have asthma but I have hoped it would work out.
I want to keep Logan because I still love him. My toddler will go to school next year which means I can take care of Logan at my shop. He won't be lonely anymore. The big question: Can it work out between the two of us? Can I develop immunity in him?
5 responses
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
27 Jul 12
Actually I was once horribly allergic to cats, now I have a few of them. I became desensitized myself when I was little. We got this cat, and I always wanted to sleep with the cat, everyday I woke up my mom would notice I had these buldging eyes and such. Well, I kept sleeping my my cat, even though I was swollen every morning. After a while, it all just went away. There are even articles if you do a search on www.dogpile.com for children with animals and asthma, and have found that children who grow up with animals have fewer allergies when adults. He, don't give up on your little angel. things can work out with Logan, I hope it does!
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Thank you. I wouldn't want to give him away. I really love my cat. It's just frustrating whenever I have an allergy or an asthma attack because of him. But, I'll try to build resistance against him when he comes back. Thanks for the response.
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I have asthma too, and I have four cats and three dogs. I should be miserable but I have built up a tolerance to their dander. Don't give Logan away, start slowly working with him. Pet him on a regular basis. Don't over expose yourself to him just start slowly with one or two pats a day. Do that for a few weeks and then do three or four pats. Keep your rescue inhaler handy in case you react to the dander. That is the stuff that will irritate the bronchial tubes that cause the asthmatic attack. It is like any allergy, if you expose yourself to something slowly and steadily for a period of time you will develop an immunity to it or him.
Logan is seemingly attacking the kids because he wants attention. Also he wants to exercise, and if you can manage to toss a ball or some sort of toy for him to chase he will start playing and exercising and will feel much better.
I think that the doctors immediately assume that because you have animals it will aggravate your asthma. My doctor started to tell me that I needed to get rid of all my animals and I stopped her immediately and told her no way. She then asked the most important question, and that was "when your in contact with the cat do you feel the need to use the rescue inhaler?" I replied that I didn't need it...so the critters get to stay.
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@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Fortunately, I do not need a rescue inhaler too. So, this means I can really develop tolerance to Logan. I am going to try your suggestion. If it worked for you, maybe it will work for me too. Thank you very much. You gave me such hope. :)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Jul 12
Well,living in a cage only is not good for a cat...in this case..better you should give him to another person who loves cats too and haves no Asthma or allergic with cat's hair. and your cat don't need to stay in a cage only.
I totally understand you love cat and want to care him, but please think of him also...is he happy when he has to live in a cage whole his life just because of your asthma?
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I know that Logan isn't happy and that makes me miserable too. I will try to pet him bit by bit to build tolerance. If I'm unsuccessful then I'll send him for adoption.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
27 Jul 12
I am so sorry to hear this.
I am so lucky to not have to deal with allergies while having a pet. If it is not bearable even with medication than you need to just find a way to get rid of him.
Otherwise you know it sounds like perhaps you are able to control your allergies for a bit? Perhaps try to send him off when they get bad or something. But since I have not had allergies ever I do not know what a hassle this will be.
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I can't seem to give him up. There are people who took interest in him but I declined. I would fear that they won't feed him right or they would mistreat him. Anyway, maybe I'm just worried. I drink medications from time to time, but the side effects are unbearable. So, I just try not to have more exposure to Logan.
I think that I am not a good master. My cat deserves more from me. If I'm going to give Logan to someone, I want to be sure that they will really love him.
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
My friend will bring my cat back next week. I'll try to expose myself to him bit by bit for tolerance. I hope that works. The antihistamines usually cause sedation to me, I already tried cetirizine. It is claimed to be less sedating but it doesn't work for me either.
@sataletri (8)
• Spain
27 Jul 12
You love a lot your cat. He is very important for you. Maybe children will love him as you and they could take care Logan when you cannot.
You said that your is a love-hate relationship , but can you live without Logan?
@phoenix35 (384)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
I can live without Logan, yes. Still, I don't want to give him away. So, I'll make things work by trying to make me immune to him. But, if that won't work then I'll give him to someone who will love him like I do.