He's so not that in to her
By venessapaula
@venessapaula (168)
Philippines
July 28, 2012 10:50am CST
So, my best friend is so crazy over her guy. He's cute, charming, practically gets along with everybody, seems like he loves my friend to bits. So, why does my friend feel like something's off? Has she been burned with all the wrong guys that she feels this guy is not her Mr. Right? Are there any warning signs that you can share to prove her gut feeling that he may not be the right one?
2 responses
@violann (436)
• United States
28 Jul 12
I always say go with your gut. Sometimes the subconscious can sense things that we can't see right away. If something seems to good to be true, then you're probably right that goes for people also.
Just an example years ago my older sister was dating this wonderful man, he was charming, witty, good looking, all the so called right stuff. They married, he turned out to be a wife beater and child molester. If she feels something is not right she needs to run away. That's just my opinion.
@venessapaula (168)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
Oooh, that's horrible. Sometimes, the boy-next-door types who look like they can't hurt a fly do turn out to be a serial killer or a theater-shooter. Yup, I guess you are right. Her first warning sign: he flirts with other girls. Are there other subtle, little signs she should take note of ?
@violann (436)
• United States
28 Jul 12
a couple of things I can think of: if he's extremely jealous, gets upset if she talks with another man (it may just show now as a little bit), possive, always wanting to know where she is and what she's doing. These will be suttle in the beginning of a relationship, but if he's a control freak they will get worse.
I don't want to discourage relationships, I just want people to be careful, that goes for you men out there also, women can be just a cruel as a man can be, only problem with that is most people don't believe it when a man is being abused.
@savagecabbage (1216)
• Philippines
28 Jul 12
Hmm.. maybe this guy is already marked in the friend zone. There are some great guys but you just can't imagining to be with them. Like, they are just meant to be your friends or something. Maybe this is what your best friend feels? Hope my message could help. Happy mylotting.
