I dont think they need the money that badly!

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My older brother and his wife make it sound like they need all this money. My SIl lost her job about a month ago I would say now. She has been applying and no place has even considered her. She has been getting a settle payment from her job, but it runs out August sometime. They come over here saying they dont have money, they cant buy this or that. Now they have major debt, and simple spend more than their means. I dont feel sorry for them, and wont give them money. I will only give them cat food, or litter in the item not to go buy it. My brother is very mulipative (sp?), my Grandma gives him money left and right for cigarettes, or alcohol, so on. He is planning a trip September then another in December yet they supposeable cant pay their bills because she doesnt have a job, or buy food. They have in the past stole from me (not unusal in my family) which is why I refuse to give him money, if you need money that depserately you will cut back, and in dier needs my Dad will lend him the money. He comes over the other day saying how he caant afford dog or cat food, and he knows all of us will give him money for that, I know his behaviour and I said I will give him some of my canned cat food, and when I go to work buy dog food suddenly he didnt need it that badly. He comes over today, and he got two new tattoos - yet they need all this money but they can afford buying two new tattoos. My Grandma carried on how we should give hom money, because he has things to pay for and a house, also married. I offered to buy them cat / dog food that the extent Im not in a dream world on how irresponsible he is spending his money. They would do it for me, so why should I do it for them to begin with. If Im having a hard time, in the past I couldnt buy medication while in school not one person offered to help me, I had to go without.