My girlfriend has my facebook password?

India
July 29, 2012 2:20am CST
She gave me her password to delete someone from her list, she said i could go on there whenever i want... though i never would so i felt bad and gave her mine.. but now i feel like i shouldn't have done that.. do you think i should change my password??
3 people like this
13 responses
@Ysabel (1201)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
Well, it works in my case as I share my password with my husband and I have his password too in facebook accounts. I honestly do not check or log-in his account and I think he doesnt log-in my account too, at least I know and I suspect it that way. But even if he will check or I will check, I am confident that there is nothing to hide and nothing to be scared of. Again, as I said, this works for us and may not work on others. If you are not comfortable, then you have to inform her. However, be prepared as she might have some doubts as to why are you going to change your password now. Its hard to explain, but its a girl's thing. Men really find it hard but cases like these are sensitive for girls. Kwowing your passpord might have given her a sense of security. Weird for boys but this is big deal for girls. At least for the majority.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 12
yes, i think she maybe will be curious and accuse that the man have an affair when he suddenly change the password..
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
Argh! why oh why would you give someone your password? where's the sense of privacy? sheesh... bad move friend... bad move.
• India
27 Aug 12
i Totally agree with chip. The most important thing in any relationship is personal space. A certain level of privacy is very important to maintain. Changing your password now can be really bad move. In relationship often small things are turned to huge topics to fight about and chicks expertise in this art. Same thing happened to my friend he was about to get married to the girl and he gave his password to his girl for some reason. and next thing she is reading his conversation with everyone and in the end she got pissed of 4 words my friend wrote to some friend of his "love ya take care". and they broke up.They were together for over 2 years almost.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 12
i don`t know if it`s good idea.. you should trust her and your girlfriend should trust you too.. and it doesn`t mean both of you exchange pasword of facebook or email
• India
28 Sep 12
hello it is always advisable not to share password with any other person, not even family member, bf or gf, i deleted mine, it was hacked, have created new one
@MrGhost (550)
23 Mar 13
I think you should change it immediately.
@MrGhost (550)
7 Mar 13
Yes, you should change your password.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
what's the purpose of having the password of each one facebook's account? so that one can access and monitor and screen personal matters? i do not believe in having access to personal matters. although it comes with trust, there is no point in having other person to have access to your account when you do not want at that time. if you feel bad about it, talk about it with your partner.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
28 Aug 12
I would not change it , I have my fiance own but I never used it and he never used mine . Just tell her if your going to change it and let her change hers .
• Philippines
29 Jul 12
hi skiran, If there is no secret on your facebook that will be fine Privacy is still important but since your girlfriend trusted you she gave her password but it doesn't mean you are obliged to do the same thing. happy mylotting
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Jul 12
umh, you can change password and let her know about your changing...i have no idea to give anyone any my password..even though i have no secret on my email or Facebook. It is my private space and i need my partner should respect it. And for sure i have no idea to get my partner password also even though that person wants to give it to me, i don't want to spend time for watching on it.
• Valdosta, Georgia
30 Jul 12
I think there has to be trust in a relationship. If she cannot trust you or you cannot trust her the relationship will not work. If you have nothing to hide though, why are you worried about giving it to her may I ask? My husband can have anything of mine because I know I have nothing to hide from him...
• Indonesia
30 Jul 12
Never exchange your account password to others. What if something happen to her account or your account and no1 of you want to be blame? Every1 should keep their own acount private and secretly.
• Indonesia
30 Jul 12
I think if your password is owned by your girlfriend's not a problem if you do not do bad things, and also be okay if she did not interfere with your friends your privacy on facebook, if only to see it does not matter. But if it dared to operate should just change your facebook password.