What is your opinion of having two daughters and dislike each other?

How old are your daughters? If they are still young, they will be changed. Or you can slowly tell them to like and love each other.

If I was their mother, I'd spank them in order for them to learn.

Try with all your effort, when dealings with your daughters to be justice and equality. And by the way, did not tell the age of the girls, and based on perception should we deal with each of them, and to name a few, we must give responsibility to the big girl to the care of her sister small. But if they are adults and aware, you should make them take part each other in some games, and share your work in the home.

In our home, when I was kid also we used to fight for no reasons too. Now time changed and made us to become matured. But still fight will be there, but not much ;)

Your girls looks so adorable. Well, for them not to fight, if you wanna buy something for them make sure its the same in everything specially in color. Girls are like that. If your budget is not enough on that instance to both of them so better not to buy or else they will end up fighting.

If your two daughters had age that is too close, the possibility of having a sibling rivalry could be there. Most of the time, they will fight to gain the attention of the parent or the adult who are taking care of them. It is best to tell them that they are important to one another and is responsible to each other, like the eldest must learn to be patient with the younger one while the younger one would know how to respect and obey the elder sister. You can also try, making them realize that they cannot be happy without the other. Together, cite the importance of having an elder sister and the importance of having a younger sister to love and be with as they grow older. Make them feel special for having their own talents. And emphasize that you are happy because they are unique individual and that there is nothing to compete about. If you praise one of yuour daughter, make sure that it has nothing to make that other inferior...praise the other too for a talent that is different from the other and make them feel they are love for their individuality.

I'm wondering if it's just an age thing that's causing them to not get along. I will tell you that my older sister and I didn't get along in our younger days, I think it was a jealousy issue to be honest with you. Now that we are older, we are very close and we even laugh about our silly past now.

It can be very hard where your children don't get on with each other, but one of the bad things is that you can't really choose whether they're going to like each other or not, so you just have to make the best of the situation. If they don't get on and can't be together, then you should just try to keep them apart whenever you can. You shouldn't try to run your life around it though, as they should both be mature enough to get on with things. At the end of the day there isn't all that much that you can do about it so you might as well just do your best.

Welcome to Mylot! I remembered my sister and me. We would pull each other's hair and shout at the each other when we were kids. Now that we are older, we have grown mature and we no longer fight.

How old are they? It depends with girls, either they will like each other and be best friends, or they will fight a lot! As they grow up they will create strong bonds and they will treat each other better! I only have a brother, but I always wanted a sister to tell my secrets and exchange cloths, go out together and have fun! I have friends that have sisters and all of them are very close to each other. They fight sometimes, that happens when there are 2 girls in the same room, but they love each other very much!

I'm sorry you have that problem, but it is something they probably have to work out within each other, perhaps you and your hubby were totally different and one of them is like each one of you and therefore they don't have much in common, etc. It does happen in some families. I do wish I had a sister instead of a brother to be a sibling sometimes. Mine has been known to have ladies' lingerie in his room so maybe he's a closet "female" too if you know what I mean (ack!), but I don't get along with him much either at times. I only try to for my own health and sake as far as I can, that is. Its one thing when a few sisters don't like each other but my brother and I have never really liked each other, sometimes. With him it is more of a power trip and control issue, he feels I'm getting more than he is in every aspect and always has and it's just not true. He is also the opposite of me in some ways and always has been. I don't care for him as a person sometimes these days cause he is a grown man of 45 and still lives and sponges off my parents here, sleeping on the couch for like all his adult life yet having his own room where he hoards garbage and other stuff til it comes out the entire hallway. They never say anything to him so nothing will ever be done about him. He is lazy, he comes home from work and just crashes on the couch unless he wants to do his fun gardening stuff, then he'll do that in the warmer months, never lifting a finger to do any housework. Never having any interest in getting a girlfriend ever at all anymore for years. I just don't get him, he does work so that's a good thing. He also repeats kiddie phrases over and over more than a six year old would do, and he knows it bugs me yet keeps doing it like he's really 6 too. If you had that for a brother you'd understand why I just don't like being in the same room as him, especially when he has these temper tantrums and raises his voice cause he thinks he's superior to us.

Don't worry , it take some time because they are children , after that they will be like each other , and stop their fighting . try to make them be close

Hi friend, sad to hear about this, i have 2 sons, both of them are good. Some times they will fight each other, after some time they will play together and shows their unity. I wonder why your daughters hate each other? i think they have sibling affection, but they don't realize about it. Don't worry, they will change after grown up and getting maturity, you don't mention their ages here, i think they both are kids within 5 years. Am i right?

I am not a mother but an aunt of so many kids. I know what it's like when they fight especially those who are younger. It's a headache I know. The rivalry maybe because of jealousy and fights over attention of the parents or may be a thing. To lessen this, I think you should not favor either of them when they fight and discipline them equally. As they grow older, they usually get over the rivalry like my nieces. Good luck to you and your daughters are lovely, by the way.

welcome to mylot. it is natural for children to fight with one another. especially when they are siblings -- the first one starts feeling that she is being neglected on account of arrival of the second -- i know you will have tough times. but they will learn to adjust with each other slowly. Between them they may fight. if another person scolds their sibling (not you) they may not tolerate and they will cooperate.

It is very natural for siblings to complain, feel jealous and keep fighting. It is a part of their growing procedure. My nephew and niece have an age gap of 9 years, my nephew who is 12 years would sometimes complain my sister that she loves my niece more than him. Try not to take anyone's side during their fights, whenever they fight give an equal scolding and warning to both of them. Your extra care or concern for one would make the other more jealous.

The problem you have got I have seen in many families, some children are trying to get more more attention from their elders. They sometimes think my parent more loves to my sister or brother than me. Don't worry about this situation this is not only one situation in your family. But you need to solve this as soon as possible. Go and meet physiologist with your daughters.